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My Last Few Days


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Guest Alex Blitzen

I never thought it would happen to me. I told myself I would never be a victim again. But that didn't stop these past two days from happening.

Yesterday, an old friend showed up at my house. Last time I saw him he was angry with me. He was angry that I wouldn't date him; he blamed it on me being tg. He was bleeding so I helped him and bandaged him up. While I was in the bathroom he managed to steal important medications and oxygen tubes from me. He also put some freon in there somehow. (I'm not entirely sure how) But when I started to have serious problems and couldn't find the medications I needed, I realized what had happened. I reported him to the police and thought they would just find him and things would be fine after that.

But.... I was wrong.

Today, I was walking home alone from a doctor appointment. Three men came up to me and pulled me into the alley. They told me I was wrong to call the police on him. They were there for retaliation. Two of them held my arms and they took turns beating me. I don't really know the extent of any of my injuries as I was afraid to go to the hospital. I am not going to contact the police again about this. I don't need any more retaliation, and they said next time will be worse. I just wanted to get that out. I think I am still in shock.

And please remember, be safe. Don't be alone if you can help it. Stay on the crouded streets. (Don't take short cuts down an abandoned street) If you see someone that might look dangerous, walk toward the crowds, or into a busier building.

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Alex has a very important message for all of us - always be aware of your surroundings and if you don't trust someone - stay away from them.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

WHAT?

Inconceivable! How can that happen?

Alex

You don't know who those second people are?

YOU NEED TO LIVE SOMEWHERE ELSE. They essentially killed Joe Cool you know... is very dangerous for you if they know where you live! At least write all this down and send it to someone for safe keeping in case you are murdered! OH MY

Concerned about you! THIS IS JUST WRONG! DAMNNN

Lizzy

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Guest Alex Blitzen

I went to the doctor today, told them I fell down the stairs (lame excuse i know). I do have some injuries, but they will heal (some quicker than others). I also had all my medications filled again from the hospital.

I don't think they will come after me again, as I don't plan to go back to the police about it. And if they do come after me again, well I guess things happen sometimes.

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Guest thefireship

Rrgh. I admit it. I fear this sort of stuff happening in my area. >_< Good advice you're giving about watching your back and being aware of where you are and one's surroundings but.. Really, I just hope you heal up fast and will be okay. :C

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Guest Alex Blitzen

Thanks. I'm actually already starting to feel a bit better. At least now I know to avoid certain situations. I haven't been taking my usual shortcuts, I stay on the main roads now. Also, I find that I am more watchful of my surroundings; I notice a lot more.

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I am really sorry this happened to you Alex.

This is why I'm glad to live in the state I live in. Here anyone who hasn't committed a felony can carry a concealed weapon with a permit (passing a gun safety class). It's funny because one of very close friend's husband at work ran into a situation this week where he actually had to pull the gun. Two strangers came up to him in the parking lot and demanded to look in his fanny pack. Little did they know that he carries a gun in his fanny pack. So he let them see what is in the fanny pack by pulling his gun. The would be robbers got out of there as fast as they could. From what I was told he usually keeps aware of his surroundings, but this time he slipped up.

Susan

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Guest Esperanza Xochitl
I am really sorry this happened to you Alex.

This is why I'm glad to live in the state I live in. Here anyone who hasn't committed a felony can carry a concealed weapon with a permit (passing a gun safety class). It's funny because one of very close friend's husband at work ran into a situation this week where he actually had to pull the gun. Two strangers came up to him in the parking lot and demanded to look in his fanny pack. Little did they know that he carries a gun in his fanny pack. So he let them see what is in the fanny pack by pulling his gun. The would be robbers got out of there as fast as they could. From what I was told he usually keeps aware of his surroundings, but this time he slipped up.

Susan

Well I have my own problems with Arizona, as a Mexican...

But I agree about the need for self-defense. I carry an empty glass mini bottle in my purse when ever I'm out. Pepper spray is also good.

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Guest Zolrek

Something like this happened once in our area(a guy got beat up on the street and it was a hate crime). After it happened a whole rally of people went on the street shouting out against ignorant buttholes. They had signs that said "Stop hate crimes! Stop ignorance. Live in peace." etc. Of course the people who beat up the guy got thrown in jail and sued.

I would say report it and sue. Then again, I'm saying that sitting here in Canada...I don't know what it's like to live in a the USA.

I'm sorry it happened to you. I wish I could throw those kind of people in jail forever...

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