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I've been struggling with gender for a while now, and what is most frustrating for me is knowing exactly what I am. I live my life as a male but have always found myself attracted to female clothes and having female thoughts from time to time. I find myself getting increasingly more and more jealous of seeing women, especially during the summer. I get jealous because I want to be like them. Posting all of this here is actually a huge step for me. I've never let on to anyone that I have these feelings and I don't have anyone that I can trust enough to open up to about it.

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Hi Molly

Welcome to the family, so nice to meet you. :D

Indeed you are absolutely correct when you say that this is a Huge step, ;) Infact it's probably the most important step that we make. As there can be no change in our lives until we decide that there is something that needs changing. :P

The first step is always the hardest. So congratulations, you got the first step done. Now you can feel free to ask any questions that you may have and we will do our best to help you find your answers. ;)

So Post, Post, Post :lol:

LUV

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Hi Molly and Welcome to Laura's Playground :)

You have come to the right place if you are searching for answers. Feel free to look around all the forums and you will find a lot of useful information here that will help you answer your questions. Also there are a lot of members here who feel or have felt the exact same way you do. You will find the members here to be very friendly and caring, always wanting to help.

Love Susan

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Hi Molly

Welcome to the family, so nice to meet you. :D

Indeed you are absolutely correct when you say that this is a Huge step, ;) Infact it's probably the most important step that we make. As there can be no change in our lives until we decide that there is something that needs changing. :P

The first step is always the hardest. So congratulations, you got the first step done. Now you can feel free to ask any questions that you may have and we will do our best to help you find your answers. ;)

So Post, Post, Post :lol:

LUV

Jean

Thanks for the warm welcome, Jean. There is a lot more to my story and i'd like to get to know this community better so that I might be able to get some help along my journey. :)

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Guest mollynew

Thanks again to everyone for welcoming my to the community.

I've read a lot on this subject and many of the suggestions that I hear are to try dressing for longer and longer periods of time and even to start taking some hormones. I think I really need to do some self exploration though and figure out exactly how I feel about this but it's very difficult for me to do on my own. I don't really have any money to afford a therapist. Has anyone else been in this situation that might be able to give me some advice?

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