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I am full time now of course (except at work) - but I am experiencing some new interest in me I have never had happen before. I have had doors held open, and been assisted with loading groceries and such. I am not writing about that.

The HRT is working. Maybe too well?

(1) Every office has its Romeo - mine does too. He is a good male friend and we kid all day long. He loves the women in our office and I am amazed they haven't had him written up! He is from Lebanon - like that makes a difference, but the culture there is different toward women. He came up to me Friday and said, "You look sexy today, what have you done?" It was a come-on comment saying I looked suddenly appealing to him - feminine type! No misunderstanding that. I am afraid my days as passing male at work are going to be more challanging!

(2) I moved to New Orleans, and have located a new electrolysis technician. I had an evaluation today - and... I am pretty certain she thinks I an generic female. She explained that she went in the business because she had a problem with facial hair like I do. She held my hand and told me it was alright, she can get it cleared - and quickly (I have no real beard naturally and have already had my eyebrows ans moustache areas worked on). I didn't correct her.

(3) I got propositioned as a woman today. The manager/owner/jewelry craftsman male proprieter asked me if I was available. I told him I was engaged. It surprised me!

So I think life is starting to get a lot more complicated!

Lizzy

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You knew that was eventually going to happen Lizzy. Maybe a solution is to work on getting the info on your passport changed, and thus other records like your driver's license. God forbid that you run into the same situation you have had to endure in the past 1 1/2 years, but it still would be nice to be prepared and all your identification changed to female as much as possible, so you won't have to hide your true self anymore. It's got to be a scary time for you. You are too much a woman now to be able to hide it easily anymore.

Love Jenny

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Lizzy, dear, I'll refrain from the usual sarcasm to just echo Jennifer's words - it was bound to happen, and sooner rather than later.

GRAND! GRAND! :D

You are a lovely, statuesque (OK, had to throw that in there :P )and intelligent woman. Guys are going to notice you, no getting around it. You're going to have to decide when, and how, to begin that type of relationship, if that's what you desire. It may be a conundrum, but an interesting and exciting one.

Welcome to womanhood, hon. The Express has arrived at its destination.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Sweet Lizzie,

Congratulations, girl. You have finally arrived where every trans woman dreams of being--so natural and so pretty that you are attracting men.... Ooooooooo......

GRAND GRAND GRAND

I cannot offer any sympathy, only envy. :lol:

Enjoy it and be careful.

Hugs,

Becky

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Sounds like you are doing so good!! There must be so many people both envious and inspired by your accomplishments.

The girl in me is just plain jealous. Long legs AND getting hit on? I don't want to take anybody up on it but it would be nice to know I had the chance.

Love

JJ

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