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My Nervous Friend, Will She Pass?


Milly

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My friend wants to know if she'll pass but she's a bit nervous to post here. So she asked me to do so in her place! I told her she looks very feminine but nooooo she's all "no I dun!" so here we are as the final test.

1st pic, http://img821.imageshack.us/img821/8672/mcac4809deefe40d188f567.jpg

bit small but eh yeah.

2nd pic. http://img205.imageshack.us/img205/270/jessiev.jpg

A bit larger.

Inb4 me saying "I told you so" :3

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Guest ~Brenda~

Ashley :)

Passing is a very complicated and long involved process. It takes much more than looks to pass. Body movement, mannerisms, attire, voice, as well as physique all are part of passing.

Tell your friend to take her time and learn all about her gender :)

HUGS

Brenda

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My friend wants to know if she'll pass but she's a bit nervous to post here. So she asked me to do so in her place! I told her she looks very feminine but nooooo she's all "no I dun!" so here we are as the final test.

1st pic, http://img821.imageshack.us/img821/8672/mcac4809deefe40d188f567.jpg

bit small but eh yeah.

2nd pic. http://img205.imageshack.us/img205/270/jessiev.jpg

A bit larger.

Inb4 me saying "I told you so" :3

Hi Ashley; Your freindneeds lots of work to pass as her true self. Here are some pointers I hope you will try, try an acney cleaner on her face-daily, thin her eye brows alittle not much, Start treating her face for hairremoval- the best way is electrolosis,try doing her hair a different way-more femenine,start retrainning how she walks-alittle more uprightand the best way for that is try walking with a book on her head, the only way I can demonstrate what I'm saying is to go to youtube and type in the search bar" transsexual female trainning videos" IE{ voice trainning makeup, walking as a female, talking more with her hands, the style of clothing she wears, like something that will hind her private parts downstairs,walk with her feet closer together- no wide walking- you don't want to look like a lumberjack in a dress.otherwise she has a good start on her way to being her true self. I really hope this helps her and you? It takes alot of work and practice, this will not happen over night. So don't give up, keep at it and you will succede. HUGS Regina Renea

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your friend is going to look like a cute, fun loving girl. The roundness in her face and bright blue eyes are real assets as well as that mischievous look. The biggest problem I see are the eyebrows and the way she is holding her lips and head in the pic.

Women tend to push their lips out to be as plump as possible-most guys do the opposite. And a lip plumper used regularly will have a long lasting cumulative effect.

Women also seldom stick their chin out. All the decades I playacted woman it was constantly mentioned that I had my chin out al the time. An unconscious male gesture on my part that makes peope uncomfortable when a woman does it. It means she's looking for a fight where with men it's just confidence.

As far as the eyebrows-women are VERY particular about having thinner arched eyebrows. Hurts like the dickins at first to pluck them but it really does get less painful

Hope this helps your friend. She's gonna be cute!

JJ

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Sigh if only she could be on to read this :( I told her she would look pretty. I'll have to link her this when she gets back lol

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I've said this a million times before... After HRT most trans people pass physically. Mainly because 90% of the people you see every day don't care enough about you to notice anything other than slight details about you as they pass by you.

SPend way more time focusing on the voice than on the physical things. The voice will get you read far more often than anything physical about you.

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