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So... That's all I am I guess...

Oh well...

I'll keep things to myself from now on... If this is all people see me as...

Don't worry any more...

Since this is "all I am"

Just so you all know. :) Okay thank you. :)

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Guest ~Brenda~

Now there DG,

What would ever give you the idea that you are seen as an attention seeker?

People in need deserve help. You deserve help :)

It is OK to post all that concerns you and what is on your mind.

Love you

Brenda

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Guest digitalgremlin

Now there DG,

What would ever give you the idea that you are seen as an attention seeker?

People in need deserve help. You deserve help :)

It is OK to post all that concerns you and what is on your mind.

Love you

Brenda

Someone told me that I am. So therefore I am sure that there are a lot of others out there that think that too. Oh well. I guess, even though I did swallow what I did... I guess it's not believed... Oh well then I guess... *shrug* Maybe I don't cut either... Mhm... Oh well then...

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Guest digitalgremlin

DG hon :)

Now just relax and know that you are loved here...OK?

HUGS

Brenda

I am sure I am. :rolleyes: Yeah right. If I was... Then people HERE wouldn't think that I am attention seeker. I want to know how many people think that I am. Go on tell me <_<

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One person thinks I'm an idiot. Does everyone think I am an idiot? No. One person has said this. It doesn't everyone else is thinking it. Stop trying to assume other peoples thoughts. It does you not good. it does no one else any good.

Matt

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Guest digitalgremlin

One person thinks I'm an idiot. Does everyone think I am an idiot? No. One person has said this. It doesn't everyone else is thinking it. Stop trying to assume other peoples thoughts. It does you not good. it does no one else any good.

Matt

You know that's easier said then done for me... >.<

And no you aren't an idiot.

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Guest digitalgremlin

If you're an attention seeker, then you're obviously not a good one.

I have no idea who you are. ^___^

Cheers.

I hope that's a compliment! And yes you do know who I am ;) You just don't realise it yet xD

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Guest Chandra

Hello Digitalgremlin,

I do not think you are an attention seeker, and I wouldn't place much merit in it even if one person said it.

I could make a strong argument that any one that posts here is an attention grabber. We can't all be attention seekers can we?

What we are is a family that sticks and cares about eachother and tries to help out when needed because no one is perfect.

We all share a common bond because most of us do not fit neatly into the idea's of mainstream society. This is the reality of the situation, none of us asked to be born this way but here we are. You have done nothing unusual, the diversity of Laura's actually makes us stronger and more able to help each other out.

The road we lead is not an easy one, but being part of this group definitely helps. When I felt I was the only one in the world that had different feelings I was much worse and suicidal. Now because I came here and interacted, I feel much better. So please do not feel that you are merely here as an attention seeker. You are only expressing your own opinions.And owe no one an explanition for your thoughts. If everyone clammed up there would be no Laura's. If you are worried about one persons opinion telling you are a seeker of attention, then I am one person telling you that you are not, and it's ok you are among friends where you belong.

Take Care.

Love, Chandra

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I think whoever called you that is an a-hole, and therefore all that person is is an a-hole.

Really, I don't think what that accomplishes in any way, shape, or form, especially on a site for trans support... I think you should tell a moderator or such about whoever is calling you names. Because that is not nice. And besides hurting you, if this person is going around on Laura's calling other people attention seekers, or who knows what other mean things, that is NOT cool.

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Has some one said that you were an attention seeker? Recently? I know you felt that had been implied but that was quite awhile back and has been addressed several times in other threads about it.

Has it happened again? Was it said straight out or did you think someone meant that from something else they said?

Instead of concentrating so much on one comment why not focus on all the positive ones you get?

Did you change your mind about the hospital? Ithought you were going today. I will be good to get help so these things don't keep plaguing you and making you so anxious and upset.

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Guest digitalgremlin

The person said it directly. I have mentioned it to someone and I will tell someone else about it that can handle it better.

I am still going to the hospital. I am going tomorrow. I will make a thread right before I leave so that everyone knows that I have left.

It's really hard for me to focus on the positive things and not on the negative things although I do try. Not many people see that I try...

There are people that even think that I am not going to go... Well I am going this time... My mum knows about it...

Oh and we may move when I get out... To a better community :)

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Meh so you're an "attention seeker" better to seek attention than to wither quietly. Hell I'm a bit of one myself. Who cares what they think. It's all about you and your thoughts. Some people are douchenozzles, it comes as no surprise there would be some here too. *hugs* Don't let the e-thugs beat you down.

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Guest digitalgremlin

Meh so you're an "attention seeker" better to seek attention than to wither quietly. Hell I'm a bit of one myself. Who cares what they think. It's all about you and your thoughts. Some people are douchenozzles, it comes as no surprise there would be some here too. *hugs* Don't let the e-thugs beat you down.

lol It's hard ya know? *hugs* I can only try to not let them get me down but it's hard not to...

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