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My Name Is Now Legally Natalie!


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I was starting to wonder if the court order would ever arrive. But today the court order arrived in a plain white envelope.

So I can finally start getting all my accounts and government documents like my drivers license, passport, social security card etc updated.

One more hurdle down who knows how many more to go. :D

Natalie

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Congratulations Natalie!

You've really been knocking those hurdles down ately and this was a big one!

Hugs

JohnJ

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Guest Donna Jean

CONGRATULATIONS, NATALIE!

There! I got to say it...

That must feel wonderful....I want it, too...

Geez what's going on?

Charlene got her marker changed to F...Paula got all changed...now you...

Oh my goodness!

That is such wonderful news!

HUGGS & LOVE!

Donna Jean (soon)

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That is fantastic Natalie.. I'm sure you are excited and eager to complete the paperwork that confirms who you ate.

Love Jenny

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Guest therisa

Congratulations Natalie, on this huge step for you. I have been procrasinating on my own name change, but that is tied up with other personal matters.

:D

therisa

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Guest NatalieRene

Thank you every one. :) This is such a huge mile stone for me.

With my name change and being full time I hope that I will blend in.

My last personal mile stone is getting srs. I know srs isn't what makes the woman, but I need it for my own personal mental well being. I won't let this last milestone keep me from my day to day but my dysphoria won't be totally gone until then.

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Fantastic news, Natalie! Congrats, hon. :D

Time to start putting those nickels and dimes into the piggy bank for the big surgery day. The way things have gone for you lately,

I'm sure it won't be that far off.

Best wishes for a wonderful rest-of-your-life.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Woo! Congrats!

I think this is one of the rare times in our lives that we're ecstatic about being handed a pile of paperwork to tackle! Hope the changing over of names goes smoothly for you. :)

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Guest BeckyTG

Dear Legally Natalie,

OUTSTANDING!

I am truly so very happy for you. I've had my new driver's license with my F on it and my new name for only a month, but it really and truly changes your attitude in a serious way.

I look forward to hearing about this serious attitude shift.

Sam was right--this is one pile of paper that will be a joy to tackle. :D

Big Hugs for you, dear Girlfriend.

Love,

Becky

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Guest NatalieRene

Thanks everyone. :) I can't wait to get home and get my license changed on wednesday.

You're all right, it's going to be a lot of paper work to get everything updated. I just wish I could get the female marker right away.

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Guest NatalieRene

Oh wow congratulations Elizabeth!! :D

I still need to make it to the DMV to get my license updated. I was there today but didn't go in because the line was out the door. Hopefully tomorrow won't be so busy.

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Guest Donna Jean

Oh wow congratulations Elizabeth!! :D

I still need to make it to the DMV to get my license updated. I was there today but didn't go in because the line was out the door. Hopefully tomorrow won't be so busy.

WHAT??????

YOU DIDN'T WAIT?

GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

Dee Jay

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Guest NatalieRene

LOL don't get me wrong I was tempted. But it was already 9 am and I was running late as it was for work. I'll try to get there earlier tomorrow and get it done then.

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