Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Earrings For Guys


Guest Link

Recommended Posts

Since the girls have all been posting a bunch of earring threads, I thought I'd jump on the bandwagon.

I'm completely down with guys wearing earrings in both lobes and, since I got my ears pierced when I little, I plan on doing that sometimes once I can fully pass. But until I can pass, I want to start wearing just one earring. I've been having problems finding masculine ones though. I know when my dad used to wear an earring, we would buy them for him at Wal-Mart and just get ones that came in a pair. Maybe styles have changed since then because I can't find any at places like Wal-Mart that I would wear as a guy.

Anyone hear know where to go?

Link to comment
Guest StrandedOutThere

I guess I'd start by Googling it. Men's earrings are not a big thing right now, but I know they still sell them.

You could just start by going with something simple. Maybe check overstock.com or something?

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Try Hot Topic-they are in most malls and have a web site as well. You might also check eBay and search for male earring or unisex earrings. You'll probably find more than you can go through.

JohnJ

Link to comment
Guest Donna Jean

.

Ok.....

Experience speaking here...

As a "male" person in 1973, I got my left ear pierced and wore something in it for over 35 years!

I always wore a very small silver hoop...or a small gold stud...

Once I wore a diamond stud and someone said that it looked feminine! OMG I sure didn't want that!

(deep denial)

Try this....

http://www.maleearrings.net/

HUGGS!

Donna Jean

Link to comment
Guest Distort

I second ebay, great range and good prices. I go window shopping at piercing jewellery places, then look for something similar on ebay because shops seem to have at least a $20 markup on everything.

Other than that, have you looked in a piercing/tattoo place? They usually have a decent selection of simple hoops and studs that suit guys.

Link to comment

Forgot to mention I'm allergic to pretty much everything and can only wear hypo-allergenic, etc. etc. stuff so used earrings aren't typically an option.

But thanks to everyone for the suggestions. Gonna check them all out!

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K

Stud type or hoop ring? Buy them the same place women do - all the same. A clerk will be glad to help you and never think twice about it.

Lizzy

Link to comment
  • 1 month later...

I wear gold hoops sometimes, and other days sparkly studs, it just depends, what I would like on the day.

One day I was in a woman's store buying jeans, and sales woman ask me if my studs were diamonds, I was rather flattered but I just laughed and said "How I wish" they are my $6.00 diamonds.

Patricia :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Link to comment
Guest JeanVier

I wear three medium silver testicles in my right ear, two in my left, and I got them from Fire & Ice (in the mall), and they were only about ten dollars a pair.

-JV

Link to comment
Guest JeanVier

I wear three medium silver testicles in my right ear, two in my left, and I got them from Fire & Ice (in the mall), and they were only about ten dollars a pair.

-JV

WOW-- I did NOT mean that. I meant those round things that you can bounce or hit with a bat... I guess "studs" would have been better. That was a surprise to see!!

-JV

Link to comment

Gauge is the unit of measure for wire and is not related to jewelry specifically. You can buy wire on a spool that's 18g and it'll be the same as an earring post that's 18g. The 3mm that you saw refers to the size of the sphere on your stud, not the diameter of the post.

To answer your question, yes, the smaller gauges like 18 and 20 are most common for post/stud or danglie earrings. 16g or 14g would be more common for captive ball or horseshoe type rings. Any lower than that and you start approaching lobe stretching territory.

Depending on what type of earrings you are buying, the gauge will likely not even be a factor. In the case of your average earrings (studs/danglies), the size is rarely mentioned since whatever is attached to the post or hook is the focus, not the wire itself and it is therefore kept very thin. Keep in mind that the vast majority or earring wearers are not interested in stretching or gauging their lobes. Unless you are leaning more towards the "punk" or "goth" styles found at Hot Topic an the like, it shouldn't be an issue for you. :)

Hope this helps.

~Zig

Link to comment

Try some of your tatto parlors. Most of them do piercings as well. I had mine done in one. They used a needle which was a heck of a lot better than just ramming a stud through the ear to create the hole.

Cris

Link to comment
  • 2 months later...

I've had earrings - simple steel hoops with green-purple-blue streaks in them - for about seven years; don't really want to get rid of 'em if I don't have to. I don't think I even asked if they were for men or women, I just liked them :-) My netsurfing indicates earrings are becoming more "acceptable" for guys.

Alex

Link to comment
Guest Allison Michelle

Go to about any tattoo parlor. Most do piercing as well as tattooing and would have decent earrings. You may have to taper the hole in your ear a bit, but tapering isn't too painful.

AM

Link to comment

I just went to the jewelry store yesterday. I got a set of hoops for about a hundred bucks. 14k gold. Of course I got the earrings and my wife got an anklet. Go figure. Good jewelry will last forever and always look goog.

I cannot wear costume jewelry, so a set of inexpensive earring ls from the mall kiosks was not an issue.

Shelly

Link to comment
  • 2 months later...
Guest tucker

i get mine from hot topic because i have plugs, but they have other kinds. Though, onilne is probably best for your allergies, and cheapest

Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
Guest Elena

Earrings for guys have been trending towards plugs and cbrs. Best places to find earrings that guys are wearing now is at body-piercing/tattoo parlors or as Tucker said Hot Topic. Allergies shouldn't be an issue with anything from a piercing studio, all their stuff is usually surgical grade.

Cheers,

Elena

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   5 Members, 0 Anonymous, 287 Guests (See full list)

    • KymmieL
    • ClaireBloom
    • Justine76
    • Ivy
    • Vidanjali
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      770.1k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,092
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Selena729
    Newest Member
    Selena729
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Angelo christoper
      Angelo christoper
      (38 years old)
    2. Joslynn
      Joslynn
      (61 years old)
    3. Kaltia_Atlas
      Kaltia_Atlas
    4. Rika_Lil
      Rika_Lil
      (40 years old)
    5. Summerluv
      Summerluv
      (19 years old)
  • Posts

    • Ivy
      Trying out a new wig. Got my reading glasses on. I've also got dark roots now - first time in years.
    • Vidanjali
      Thea, your post made me think of a comic named Chloe Petts whom I saw recently on Hannah Gadsby's Gender Agenda comedy special on Netflix. She is a cisgender masculine lesbian. She is brilliant and so funny. I was intrigued by her identification - specifically masculine, not butch. And it seems to me there is a difference. 
    • Vidanjali
      Today I had a dr appt. When I checked in, I was asked my surname, which I gave. Apparently there were two patients with appointments at that time with that same surname. The receptionist asked, "Are you (my legal name which is feminine) or Paul?" I got such a kick out of it not being assumed I had the feminine name. 
    • Vidanjali
      That must have felt affirming, albeit perhaps weirdly so. However, I'd construe that more broadly (no pun intended) as sexism rather than misogyny where the latter would imply contempt. Also, incidentally, I've heard chivalry referred to as "benevolent sexism". 
    • MaeBe
      My boss is in a panic. His business is a couple straws away from breaking a camel in half. He's just handling the stress very poorly.   My dad, though. He's handling things pretty well, as long as I continue to don't get massively offended by being called: son, boy, etc. His eldest is leaving the State and looks so different than he's been used to over the years. I haven't told him I'm on HRT, but to be fair the changes haven't been massive. I've always had boobs, more so after COVID weight gain and made more obvious with its loss, but now I'm not hiding them--and obviously wearing a bra. The estrogen has done some work, but nothing major (sadly). I think the biggest HRT changes have been my skin and a mild amount of fat redistribution.   Today I'm wearing my cheater, I almost have cleavage! :D I need to get another t-shirt bra to keep a good rotation. I only have two, one push-up, and the rest are unlined (great for Summer, but not great for my Summer wardrobe ).
    • Justine76
      Thank you so much April! 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Glad to hear it. Abby
    • JenniferB
      I eat a ketogenic diet and have had no problems. I don't know about your case but I suspect it is the estrogen. Research the types of ways to take estrogen. Pay close attention to the bloodwork results. If they are not satisfactory, bring it up with your doctor. I take injectables, which are fully covered by insurance. It may not be the route for you, but something to consider. I emphasize to do your research and good luck. You can solve this. Be persistent.    Jennifer
    • April Marie
      I'm in a magenta blouse under a baby blue buttoned cardigan - still a little cool here in the northeast today - with dark blue jeans. Oh, and my favorite flame colored copper feather earrings.
    • April Marie
      What a wonderful photo! You look gorgeous!!!
    • Justine76
      White crop top and capri jeans ;) Finaly tricked the face id on my phone, "that's not you" lol.
    • JenniferB
      This is my opinion, so take it for that. Fatigue is based more on what you eat. Eat a more healthy diet, and stay away from ultra-processed foods and that should help. Think of eating the way we did a couple hundred years ago before the industrial revolution. It's just a thought.   Jennifer
    • April Marie
      Welcome back, Jennifer! As a relative newbie to the forum and to transition, I look forward to getting to know you and share in your experiences.
    • JenniferB
      I like the fact that you found support and have close members of your life. That is very important. No matter where you are on your journey, you have to have the support. Or you drift, and you question yourself.    Looking forward to your progress,   Jennifer
    • JenniferB
      The source of estrogen can matter. I started HRT at age 50. My avatar was the result. I started on pills, and moved to estradiol valerate injectables. However, there was a shortage, and I had to use a compounding pharmacy. The estradiol would evaporate in the vial, and couldn't get 5 doses out of it. I eventually move to the patch.    Over time I realized the patch wasn't working properly. And, the last time I visited my doctor he told me my estrogen levels were low. He asked me if I wanted to change to estradiol valerate. I jumped for joy. So I started my script for estradiol valerate. My prescription was ready, but I didn't receive my script for needles for a couple of weeks. So I bought my own (legal). I started with intramuscular injections. This requires a longer needle, and the estrogen is released into the muscles. It has a powerful effect right away but isn't stable. So by the time I took my next injection 2 weeks later, the estradiol in my bloodstream was almost gone. When I finally received my script for my needles, the needle was shorter. So the injection was subcutaneous. What is different with this type of injection as that the estrogen released is more even over 2 weeks (before the next injection). Interesting the syringe/needles my doctor prescribed are so much higher in quality. I am going to follow his path. My breasts are now perky again. And I will let my doctor guide me.    I wish you success on your journey. Let us know how things are proceeding. I am happy for you.   Jennifer 
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...