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What Should I Do To Pass?


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Guest miss kindheart

hi JRM,

<< hug >>

I would recommend that you don't worry so much about passing.

Instead accept yourself for who you are , and change the things that you don't like that make you what you are.

As for passing , what is the test ??

I have to tell you that no TS woman can pass every test.

If the test is post a small pic like you did , i would say you pass that one :)

Just keep working on making yourself the beautiful girl that you are inside, and always try and be happy being who you are :D

Your always gonna be beautiful,

:wub:: vanna

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Smile and be confident!

Be yourself!

That's about it from this image I do not see any real problem areas that will be trouble forever - with HRT a lot of your features soften and you will feminize a bit more but bone structure does not change - your face does not have any really hard, masculine features so you are in good shape there.

Being thin also helps you now and you can always use your hair to frame your face - looking pretty good.

I am so glad that you posted a no makeup shot - those are the best ones for seeing how you look rather than how good you are making disguises.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Donna Jean

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Well, I see tons of really good stuff....

You're thin..

Long, slim neck...

Good face...

Wonderful hair...

I think that you have everything that you need to pass...I don't know if you're planning on HRT, but if you do, you'll look remarkable!

Huggs

Donna Jean

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jrm hon,

The first thing which you probably already know about is grow your hair, i can not see if your eyebrows need thinning or not, but keep that in mind if they are bushy, you have a slender body and from what i can see soft facial features, if you had long hair in that picture i would see a girl.

With that being said, passing is so much more than looking good, it is an overall combination of voice, mannerisms and dressing to fit in.

You are young, go to the mall or anyplace girls your age hang out and observe...observe...observe, look at what they wear, how they interact with each other, how they talk etc. then try to copy that.

2-1/2 years in transition and i still observe and learn new things all the time.

Paula

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Guest Erin Girl to Be

wow!!!!

I think you look great.....

once your hair grows out you will look fabulous....

Erin

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his is me as of yesterday(no make-up)

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Guest NotClaire

for you to pass? grow your hair out and wear girl clothes :D you'll pass fine. you've got a sort of androgynous look right now.. so with the hair and clothing cues, you'll be all girl in the eyes of the world!

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