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Hi im a 21 year old "male" im very confused. I am only attracted to girls, but when i sometimes see girls around town in skirts and tights, i feel like i would look good and comfatable in girl clothings. When i was at univeristy my girl flatmates they said would love to have my legs and bum. lol I wasn't sure if this was a insult or compliment. Though i got tipsy and i tried on there thigh high boots and they fit perfectly i felt excited, thats as far as i ever have gone - im a chicken arn't i? -

Any way any one would ever felt similer feelings.

How many people are from UK here too?

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Hello adey12,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. Yes, your feelings are quite common. If these feelings are causing you stress, you might consider consulting with a gender therapist. He/she could help you sort out your feelings of confusion.

We do have many members here from the UK. I don't know the exact count, though.

MaryEllen :)

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Hi Adey. My feelings were similar when I tried on my first skirt. Now three years later, I feel so feminine. MaryEllen's advise is worth taking. Welcome to the site.

Gennee

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Guest adey12

thanks for the reply's. I will consider all of this. So how old were you all when you first realised certain things.....?

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Guest CharliTo

Meh, I haven't really did much dressing up until recently. (and even then it's like once a week if I'm lucky :P) and I'm also only attracted to girls (or so I'm still hoping to stay as...haha)

Yah I agree with MaryEllen...if that issue does give you stress, consult a therapist :)

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Guest Sheila

hi adey,

yes, i have similar feelings and experiences. i've known since i was about 5 years old that i wanted to be a girl. it's been a life long struggle for me. i've always been attracted to women myself so i don't think it's that unusaul. i see there are other people that have simular feelings. i don't feel so all alone since finding laura's playground.

peace, love and happiness,

sheila

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