Alienation And Sexual Attraction?

[Guest Annaemo]

Well now I'm getting a bit closer to where I want to be heading I'm still finding things confusing. For most of my life I've been around boys, talking about the same old stuff even though mostly it left me feeing bored and left out, I still tried hard to fit in.

Now after coming out to my self I'm just not sure what to do any more. I'm not gay so don't feel like going to the gay bars in my city, straight clubs I don't find exciting any more either. I'm sure girls just see me wanting to hit on them so finding female friends is hard. Many trans people just seem to want quick hook ups just as many guys who like trans people want to experiment. Transsexuals seem to want to find straight male partners. I'm closer to lesbian but sure lesbians will not except some one who is born male, many even get offended.

All so confusing .

[Guest sp00nss]

Im in the same boat Ill look for further updates

[Guest therisa]

Some cisfemale are interested in transwomen, but you have to be patient, while searching for them.

therisa

[Guest SidESlicker]

Stop going to clubs if you're not having fun?

Check what's around your queer community, see if there's coffee groups/support groups/book club that you can join and make some legit friends, regardless of their place under the rainbow or if they aren't under the rainbow.

Focus more on your hobies. Join a team, or make one if there isn't one. Lots of film clubs or theatre clubs usually have a pretty positive queer vibe going on, so check out what's going on there. Google what's queer in your city and see what you come up with.

And all lesbians I know accept mtf's as women, regardless of where they are on the transitioning path. If you've found some that aren't, eh, walk away from them, it's their loss.

My best advice is if you don't want a quick hook up, stop putting yourself out there where quick hook ups are the norm.