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It's starting to feel like Christmas since I told my wife all bets were off and I need some space.No more hiding!

The orders just keep coming in; loafers for casual wear, low heels for comfort, new panties, new silver studs set of five with different stones and today tights with a floral design up the side. Yesterday I bought a silver tone concho belt I've always wanted. Gosh darned it feels good!

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Wendae...how excellent to be yourself and buy what you like...congrats!!

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Wendae, that sounds like so much fun to get nice things like that! Huggs!

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Wendae...how excellent to be yourself and buy what you like...congrats!!

Thanks Melanie. I'm finally completeing my wardrobe. Now I can do some real shopping.

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Wendae, you are a true patriot. By making all those purchases, you are doing your part to boost the economy, put people back to work,

and improve people's living standards. I'm proud of you, hon. :D

Now, all we need are some pics of those lovely shoes and garments, so we can also congratulate you on your sense of personal style. :)

Keep it up, girl. You are a one-woman economic stimulus package.

Carolyn Marie

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Guest ~Brenda~

Yesterday I bought a silver tone concho belt I've always wanted. Gosh darned it feels good!

Ohhhh yes!! I know exactly that feeling :) I am very happy for you hon.

I do hope also that everything is going to be OK between you and your wife.

Love

Brenda

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Guest Emily H

I am so glad to hear that Wendae. You are so very, very lucky. I wish I could tell that to my parents. My mom doesn't care what I buy but...I don't know. I wish I could keep my clothes out at least. Are you able to do that, use your closet/drawers etc?

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Yesterday my Avon order came in. Eye shadow, a gel eye liner and 3 ankle bracelets. Needed some more clothes to round out my wardrobe so I ordered 2 blouses, a skirt, slacks and a cami. Picturesd will follow when I get a chance. It's so nice not to be hiding anymore.

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Guest AlterSabrina

No more hiding clothes in the attic.

That sounds very familiar to me, I'm always hiding clothes and worrying that someone might find them. Waiting for moments like right now to just wear whatever I want. It must be great to just have al your clothes hanging in the closet, all tidy and ready to be worn whenever you need them. And all that extra storage capacity is really allowing you to get all the things you like.

I'm so happy for you ^_^

hugs,

Sabrina

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I'm always hiding clothes and worrying that someone might find them.
[/Sabrina I know the feeling well, the stress of hiding and not able to access your clothes when you want, etc. Bummer! I'm so glad I finially said "enough"and came to an understanding. Agreeing to see a therapist helped my situation more then I can express. It paved the way for me in many ways.
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Hiding your clothes. Well I find that living alone these days does have some advantages.

I don't hide my clothes, in fact often I have my Molded Bras hanging off the laundry door-handle waiting to be hand-

washed, my nighties and sleep bra are just toss on the bed. In other words sometimes I an just plainly untidy.

New items are often left on the bed, waiting too be, tried-on and shop-tags removed then I have to find a home for them.

Although if I know that visitors are coming I do a very quick tidy-up.

Patricia :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

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Guest Wendae

Wife is out and I'll wait for her to come home as Wendae. Hoping for more acceptance. I'm gonna add some new photos. My wife bought me a cuff bracelet, silver and brass by RLM Studios for Christmas. My Avon order arrived with more nail polish and lipstick. I ordered a Playtex latex girdle (50-60's)from Ebay which I am wearing now. They really hold you in all over! Pictures have my new slacks, skirt, top and cuff as soon as I get them loaded.More clothes are still awaiting me to model them ;)

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Guest Donna Jean

Grin

We T-Girls will ALWAYS comment on fashion pictures. We too are learning the do - and don'ts.

Post em when you can!

Lizzy

YUP! Do it!

Donna Jean

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Guest Wendae

I stayed dressed for 5 hours after she came home and even prepared supper. She said today that she got peed when I suggested going out to get the mail out of the mailbox and suggesting pushing her in her in her wheel chair while femmed up. She had no problem with me still being dressed when she came home. Another step in the right direction. So best let things develope on their own with small nudges!

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Guest ChloëC

Hi Wendae,

Hopefully slow and steady will win this race. But it isn't really a race, is it, it's a desire to show that love can take many forms. And if we open our minds, maybe it will help keep our hearts open.

Hugs

Chloë

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Guest Elizabeth K

I stayed dressed for 5 hours after she came home and even prepared supper. She said today that she got peed when I suggested going out to get the mail out of the mailbox and suggesting pushing her in her in her wheel chair while femmed up. She had no problem with me still being dressed when she came home. Another step in the right direction. So best let things develope on their own with small nudges!

It's looking good. Just be honest with her and let her know how far you want to go. Apparently, if I read your earlier posts correctly, the opportunity of expression of your feminine side is where you want to go, and you are not seeking out transgender paths. Anyway - its so good to be yourself and have acceptance.

Lizzy

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