Finally Booked It.

[Guest Robin Winter]

Well, I finally booked an appointment with my GT with the purpose of getting my referral and setting up an appointment with an endocrinologist to start hormone therapy. I asked my wife to go with me, as my GT requested, but she got upset and didn't give me a straight answer. Which upset me because I've been trying to work up the courage to ask for nearly six months, and felt the time was finally right. I'm going ahead with it anyway, because she has to understand that I'm going through with this, with or without her, but I'll never stop telling her I'd rather it be with.

My appointment is two days before Christmas, which should get me my endo appointment sometime near my birthday. We'll see what happens. Wish me luck

[Guest Opal]

Here is good luck, and hope your wife comes around and is with you.

Wish you the best in the days ahead/1

Huggs,

Opal

[Guest paddy]

I trust that it all goes well.

When I booked re my gender problems, my wife came with me, and when he asked, "do want to live as a woman" and my answer was "yes", and that is where our marriage ended when we arrived home, wife (now Ex some 5/6yrs ago) promptly move into the other bedroom.

These days I live alone and living basically as a woman, and I am pretty happy, leaving all that turmoil behind. :rolleyes:

Patricia

[Guest Guest_SL]

Here is good luck, and hope your wife comes around and is with you.

Wish you the best in the days ahead/1

Huggs,

Opal

Shilo,

What Opal says goes for me as well. Good luck and yeah, I hope your wife will support you in the near future.

SL

[Guest sarah f]

Congrats Shilo. I am so happy for you. I really hope you wife goes with you.

Let us know how the visit went afterwards ok.

[Guest Robin Winter]

Here is good luck, and hope your wife comes around and is with you.

Wish you the best in the days ahead/1

Huggs,

Opal

Thanks

I trust that it all goes well.

When I booked re my gender problems, my wife came with me, and when he asked, "do want to live as a woman" and my answer was "yes", and that is where our marriage ended when we arrived home, wife (now Ex some 5/6yrs ago) promptly move into the other bedroom.

These days I live alone and living basically as a woman, and I am pretty happy, leaving all that turmoil behind. :rolleyes:

Patricia

That's the thing though, my wife has known my intentions for about 2 years, and it had finally gotten to the point where we were discussing it, or at least aspects of it, openly and positively. The reason I asked her when I did was because we were already in the middle of having a discussion that she started, about the SRS, and it was a pleasant enough conversation. Most of the time, our relationship is good, and when it's not it's usually stress related and nothing to do with my transition. I thought the timing was good, but we shall see. Sometimes I believe she thinks I just plan to talk about it for the rest of my life.

Shilo,

What Opal says goes for me as well. Good luck and yeah, I hope your wife will support you in the near future.

SL

Thank you

Congrats Shilo. I am so happy for you. I really hope you wife goes with you.

Let us know how the visit went afterwards ok.

Will do.

[JJ]

Good luck Shilo and congratulations on moving forward!

Sometimes people surprise even themselves when confronted with a reality like an appointment rather than a someday possibility. Since she has been more accepting of the possibilities in the future it's possible she will come around when she has time to process her feelings and act rather than react.

Your journey is beginning in earnest-may you enjoy every moment of it!

Hugs

John

[Guest Robin Winter]

Good luck Shilo and congratulations on moving forward!

Sometimes people surprise even themselves when confronted with a reality like an appointment rather than a someday possibility. Since she has been more accepting of the possibilities in the future it's possible she will come around when she has time to process her feelings and act rather than react.

Your journey is beginning in earnest-may you enjoy every moment of it!

Hugs

John

Thanks buddy, I hope so too