Please Help

[Guest mystique1]

for as long as i remember, i have felt uncomfortable as a male and in my own skin. not to mention, i have a feminine side more than a masculine side. i also took an online test, and the result said that i am androgynous. but that dosent feel right to me. what path should i take?

Thank you

[Guest Ariel Mai]

Hon the only thing i can think of for you to do is find a gender therapist, they can help you figure out who you are, what you wish to happen, results of what you want to be, etc. Don't trust online test they usually are not right. Stay strong, also you may find reading through others posts here what you think you are. I hope this helps somewhat. http://www.ipgcounseling.com/glbt_services.html here is a website to therapist in the lgbt community that are located in New Jersey,

Lots of Love,

Ariel Mai.<3

[Guest Confusedaboutmyfeelings]

Like Ariel said, going to see a Gender therapist is your best bet. I am from New Jersey as well and my normal therapist recommended that I head into NYC to see a GT after she did a little bit of poking around in my area and didnt see any that she thought I should go to (whatever that means ). If you are close enough to NYC there are quite a few good therapist in NYC as well as support groups.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/gender_therapists.htm Here is a list of therapist in the US. My therapist sent me a few other names of gender therapist if you want them as well. Dont know if they are any good to be honest though and shes no specialist in this area herself.

[Guest mystique1]

alright, thanks

[Guest ignota]

Hi, I can't add anything to the advice above, but juat so you know, the exact same things have also happened to me As Kat said, you're definitely not alone here