Am I Male Or Female?

[Guest idkifitsme08]

sori 2 waste ur time but i needed advice.

i hav already put up a topic on this but i need 2 explain further

i am 16 years old in september but since iv become a teenager iv had an urge 2 try my mum's underwear on

when i put it on it was magical! i luved evry minute!

after a wile i tried other things lik her bra nd sum clothes nd tights but she finalli caught me nd my dad nd mum tried 2 explain i shudnt do it. my dad said dat although woman's clothes r temptin they shudnt b worn.

i tried 2 forget it but 1 day i looked up a site called www.transformation.com or sumthing lik dat nd i learned about them and was intriguted by their stories but i was worried cus i hadnt taken hormones yet nd i wud luk lik a man nd ppl wud notice. i also grew scared of these cross dressers nd transsexuals who had obvious male looks (no offence)

i want 2 b a woman so badli at da moment but if i told my parents they wud freak nd my brother wud b freaked out as well as he has seen me use virtual makeovers 2 mak me luk more feminine.

i want 2 b a woman cus i want 2 enjoy long hair dat can b styled and coloured (I realli wish i had long blonde locks - gorgeous!) i wud also lik 2 b able 2 wear underwear for women all da time.

thank u all 4 spendin ur time readin this

xxx

luv Natasha (or my masculine name Paul)

[Guest CharliTo]

Well, I was scared of the transfolks or crossdresser folks that I used to see on the streets also. I know it's awful, but those are the kind of folks who ...just incidently are the most visible also. Just remember that you are yourself...and you won't be anybody else but yourself. Just be real to yourself.

I'm currently transitioning and I am learning (and from posting here) that there are many people who are more real.

[Guest Sen]

Transitioning takes time. You won't immediately be the prettiest girl in town the day you decide to transition. The reason you're afraid to transition is because you see the significant masculine physical features in some. But what you don't see (or notice) is the women where you never would have guessed that they used to be men. Basically, it's only possible to see the downside because it's the only side that's noticeable.

[Guest theEND]

Transitioning takes time. You won't immediately be the prettiest girl in town the day you decide to transition. The reason you're afraid to transition is because you see the significant masculine physical features in some. But what you don't see (or notice) is the women where you never would have guessed that they used to be men. Basically, it's only possible to see the downside because it's the only side that's noticeable.

Yeah that's a really good point Sen. Although it may appear that all trangendered people stand out from the crowd that definately isn't the case.

But anyway what I would advice you, Natasha, is to wait a little and see whether you still feel the same, though chances are if you've already felt like this for a while you will. At which point I would suggest you get a gender therapist, who will help you with any confusion you feel and also help you if you feel like you want to transition. Anyway good luck, I hope things turn out well for you