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Guest Krisina

I am living in guy mode and not living ft as my true self, so I will see how people are around me with my new diamond like earrings. I think they will notice some bling but I am more and more of the mind set of I don't care and no one else cares. No one cared about my 3mm stud earrings and no one cares or notices my long finger nails either. I don't think people will care about the small diamonds either.

Yesterday I bought some 14K zirconia diamond 14K stud earrings (long description). Since getting my 3mm stud earrings back in April as a present for myself, I am now ready for to try some others too. I also bought some hooped earrings but those really will have to wait. I hadn't realized how hard it is to take out small stud earrings. I had a little blood from both ears when trying to pull. In any case I won't be taking them out for a while as I let them heal.

It's nice to have stuff I want and to do things I like.

Krisina

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Guest Elena

I have found the only earrings that get any sort of comments in male mode are big hoops, i have lots of dangly earrings I wear regularly. I have gotten a few looks with my amber birdcage ones too. I don't know why I don't get a second glance with most of them, but hoops will get questions.

: Shrugs :

Whatever, I wear what suits my mood. Nobody even really makes a big deal about the hoops, and that only when I wear my hair up also. Maybe I'm just getting clocked as gay and nobody really cares. Maybe no one really cares either way.

Ohh. Kinda sounds like you should be spinning those studs a bit more often. And keep cleaning them real well. Signs of blood after 2 months means they are definately healing on the slow side. Be careful of taking those studs out too soon hon.

Cheers,

Elena

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Guest DanielleD

I agree with Elena, big hoops do seem to attract more attention, but on the plus side they are so beautiful and feminine. I just love them.

Have a Fabulous Day!!

Danielle:)

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Guest Krisina

I don't know if I should buy another bottle of the solution for the ears or not. I have about 1/4 of a bottle left of it. I'm on the second container as I used a lot being meticulous when I was letting them heal. I will make sure I turn the studs more too. I will apply the solution again 3 times a day I guess for a little while.

Again, I had no idea how hard it was to take them out. They are so tine, the studs and the backing. I guess next time instead of trying to pull them so much I will try twisting back and forth a lot more and be patient. I even had my mate help me on the second because I didn't want to see any blood and there was still some difficulty.

Still, I love having earrings.

Krisina

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Guest Krisina

No one cares about the diamond earrings and no one has mentioned them. Which is a good thing. I'd love to hear stuff of course, like they are beautiful though (giggle).

Just an update since I bought my diamond like earrings and living in male mode to the world. Two full days at work at least. I bought them mid week and now it is Saturday. I had white gold stud earring since I bought my first earrings in April. So it is reassuring on how I am treated and I am treated no differently. In fact one thought that occurred to me is that if anyone was ever to wonder what fellow in a crowd would be open minded to talk about something they could look at me, the person with the diamond earrings. Just a thought :-)

Krisina

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Guest Elena

Lol, when I got my ears re-pierced a year ago. the girl doing the piercing was trying to convince me that all the guys were getting the diamond ones for the bling factor. I rolled my eyes at her and said, "I don't care about bling, I want them to be pretty." I think she was disappointed.

Ohh yeah, looky at the new earrings I got day before yesterday!

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Cheers,

Elena

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I re pierced mine after a 20 year layoff and have gone with small gold or silver studs. I have gotten 3 comments of th e"whatcha doin' " variety, a compliment, and 150 people who never said a thing... Pretty underwhelming... I want to wear the small hoops but am reluctant to do so around folks I know( lack the chutzpah to do so ).

It ALWAYS comes down to what friends and family think, never strangers... so wearing them out of town is fine, but wimpyrolleyes.gif

Michelle

PS I agree you should be real careful about infection... MRSA is everywhere

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