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Hello Laura's Playground!

I'm so glad you are here and there to help me through one of the most interesting transitions of my life. I have many questions and look forward to being educated and helped through the emotional roller coaster of ups and downs for both Kat and myself.

I am looking forward to be part of this wonderful group of people.

Thanks, Kat's Wife

p.s. For lack for a better name you can call me Betsy.

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Guest Donna Jean

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Hello, Betsy!

Good to see you!....I'm Donna Jean...I'm 61 and making a go of it all...

I'm so glad that you finally got here...been waiting to meet you.....

Kat is a wonderful person and we all care about her....now you're here and we want to be here for you, too.....

.It's really so good to meet you.....

HUGGGGGGGS!

Donna Jean

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Guest JaniceW

Welcome Betsy,

It is so nice to meet you and have you join us. Kat is a good friend to us and I am sure you will be too. I am looking forward to talking with you often.

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To Betsy Dearest, you are helping Kat and your self in so many ways, it was very nice to meet you last night !!

Love

Cindy -

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Guest Aly Kat

I think I know which Kat you're talking about... she's cool... and is also VERY lucky apparently :) I think it's SO GREAT that you are here.

:groupwavereversed:

LOVE,

Alison

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Guest John Chiv

Welcome to Laura's Betsy. You already know how wonderful Kat is and we share your opinion. Now we are lucky to have both of you here. Kat is like family and now you are a part of this group.

Looking forward to getting to know you better.

John

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Hello, Betsy!

Good to see you!....I'm Donna Jean...I'm 61 and making a go of it all...

I'm so glad that you finally got here...been waiting to meet you.....

Kat is a wonderful person and we all care about her....now you're here and we want to be here for you, too.....

.It's really so good to meet you.....

HUGGGGGGGS!

Donna Jean

What she said! Btw, there are some great <<HUGGERS>> around herefriends.gif

WELCOME!!!

Michelle

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Guest Elizabeth K

Hi Betsy - we are so glad you are here. As I wrote - I am one of the OLD GRAY MARES here - age 64. I transitioned starting at age 61 and live full time now. My wife was grudgingly acceptive at first, but could not handle the criticism of her family and her friends. So she gave me up. So it is never easy. We sacrifice and lose so much, just to be our true selves.

Anyway - grin!

WELCOME!

Lizzy

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Guest ~Brenda~

Dearest Betsy,

Welcome, Welcome, Welcome :)

I am so glad that you have decided to join us here at Laura's.

Kat is such a wonderful person and I absolutely love her.

I hope that you find that we care deeply for everyone here.

I know that you have many questions.. so go ahead and ask dear.

Love

Brenda

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Guest Lacey Lynne

Hi!

Guess what?

I'm the yokel who just got off the phone with Kat ... and heard you talking and laughing in the background! :lol:

Even though I know your real name and a good deal about you (couresy of Kat), mum's the word. Nothing, Herr Kommandant ... I ... say ... NOTHING! Remember Sgt. Schultz (John Banner) on Hogan's Heroes? :blush:

No doubt we'll meet in person sooner than later. Come with Kat to Porlandia sometime. It'd be an HONOR to met you!

Lacey B) Lynne

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Dear Betsy,

I am so glad that you are here.

Kat is sort of special to me, being on the West coast she has been up and available at some times of crisis in my life when so many others were already asleep.

I feel a special bond with this wonderful person that you are married to - she is a wonderful lady and she says such good things about you and her feelings for you - I am so glad that you are here and working so hard to try to understand - that is a rather daunting task.

You have just said hello to a lot of new and very special friends.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest ranse

Welcome, Betsy. I've benefited from Kat's posts more than I can express. I'm glad to see you here, too, and looking forward to reading your posts. (I'm not one of the huggers; I'm more the strong (not so) silent type, but I'll tip my invisible hat to you.)

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Welcome to the Playground, Betsy.

I'm so glad you decided to join. It shows how much you care, and how much you love and support Kathleen. That is such a rare thing, and I applaud you and thank you. You are a very wonderful person.

Please feel free to ask any question or make any comment. We are all here for you, and you know we all love Kat, too.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Hi Betsy! So nice to meet you.

Kat is a very special person and well loved here. I look forward to getting to know the person she has made it plain she treasures and loves.

So kick back and make yourself at home. Post or read, question or comment all you like. Enjoy!

Hugs

Johnny

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Guest Deena

How are you holding up? Mine wife is putting on a good front but being somewhat ripped apart with sadness inside I'm sure. Or maybe that's my guilt. don't know. I wish I could understand how or why God does this to us. He is very hard to comprehend.

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Hello Betsy,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. We're glad to have you with us. :)

MaryEllen

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Guest Aly Kat

Hi Betsy, honey,

Welcome to Laura's Playground!

Everyone here is just as wonderful as I'd told you, don't you think?

I do think Laura's will help you with your transition difficulties, and, doubtless you can help others too!

It really is good to have you here as one of the family!

All my love,

Kat

Just had to say it: Awwwwwwwwwww so adorable!! :wub:

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Guest Kat's Wife

Thank you Everyone for the warm and loving welcome. I know the journey ahead is going to be a challenge and I am ready, knowing that you all and Kat are here and there to help. So gang here we go. Are you ready??? Love, Betsy

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Guest John Chiv

Kat,

You are putting a curfew on Betsy? :lol: If she stays up late, either Lizzy and I will be here to chaperone. Night time is a good time to post and read. But we do understand that you only want to share her with us for just a little while. And that is so sweet.

Hugs,

John

P.S. Betsy, we really are sane, despite what Kat told you.

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Guest MonikaC

Sorry I'm a little late to this...

Betsy,

I think it is wonderful you are joining a site like this to help with transition. I know it can be rocky at points, but the fact that you are making such an effort shows how lucky Kat is to have you! Welcome to Lauras!

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