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Guest Stacey Sim

HI ALL

Do i think i Should have born a girl? yes 100 %

How femm or masculine am i ? i would say 40 % masculine 60 % femm

How shore am i that transition is right for me ? 70% is saying that i will never be able to be content or happy until i transition 30% is saying stay as you are (go through life and be sad)

What do you think? I am seeing a GT but can someone give me there Opinion

Stacey S

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Guest MissErika

I wasn't happy until I embraced my femminity, and started to transition. I am still in the early stages and I am so much more happy than I was before, I can't even imagine going through the rest of my life as man.

Just be sure what you do is right for you.

Erika

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Guest angie

Stacey,

Nobody can know what's inside of your mind but you.

The reason many of us go into therapy is to help us

find ourselves and to choose if this truly is the path

we must walk.A/your therapist is a sounding board,that

you bounce ideas and insecurities off of as they help

guide you into making the right choice for yourself.

For only you,Stacey,can make that choice. Polls wont

do it,others advice wont do it,only your mind will

know if you truly are trans,and if transition will

be right for you in the end.For if it is right...

you will know. Keep going to therapy and find the

answer to the questions you are asking.

Warm hugs of support as you search for answers,

Angelique

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Guest Stacey Sim

hi all

just to let you know these are questons im keep asking my self and im just asking what others think

btw im shore transition is the only way for me to go

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Do i think i Should have born a girl? yes 100 %, you answered your own question, however only you can truly know the answer to this question, with the help of your GT you will, i knew from between 4 -6 years old but tried to hold paula in because i did not think it was possible to transition all those years ago, how wrong i was.

Stacey, i do no know how far along you are in transition or if you are on hrt yet, the pictures in your gallery are a bit dark but it appears you have a feminine look, a smile would be nice, with that being said, pictures do not tell the whole story as to how well you present to others, mannerisms, dressing your age to blend in, voice and the most important confidence makes up the whole package, go to a mall if one is close by or any store and observe other women then try to emulate what you saw.

I wish you the best in finding what path is best for you to follow.

Paula

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Guest Stacey Sim

i knew from between 4 -6 years old but tried to hold paula in because i did not think it was possible to transition all those years ago, how wrong i was.

yeah me too ive always known i should have been born a girl

the pictures in your gallery are a bit dark but it appears you have a feminine look, a smile would be nice

Paula, i know what you meen about a smile would be nice....im one of these people that just cant smile even if i realy tryed i just cant doit

Stacey S

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