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Funny Passing Story


Guest JulianCarsen

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Guest JulianCarsen

So i just started my senior year and its my second year at this high school.

Over the summer i started binding and just have really gotten a lot more male looking.

So im closing up on my first week of school.

i've passed multiple times. almost everyone that doesnt know me thinks im a boy its awesome.

So in a photo class im taking this Freshman girl has just been really flirty and like... drawin on me and talking to me and even MADE me sit next to her when i chose a table other than the one she was sitting at.

i was just being friendly cause... well... shes 14 and im not into that haha

she apparently forgot my name today and was asking me what it was and i was just playing around and wouldnt tell her.

so she stands up and goes..

"Ms G whats his name!?"

so for the whole 4 days of talking to me... a lot

she still thought i was a boy and had a crush on me.

Granted i was ecstatic that i passed so well i felt sort of bad. the girl was horrified. = /

oh well... haha

her first high school crush was a transman. oh well.

at least she has a fun story?

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xD Ahaha, oh man. Now that really is a multi-layer story. Congratulations on passing so well, dayum. I'm slowly getting better at passing myself, but I'm going into my senior year in a school with people I've been in school with since 6th grade, so. Wow, what a shock to that freshman, eh? You're right though, once she gets over it, she'll have an interesting story to tell. Hopefully not in the form of embarresed-fueled rumors...

Anyways, hope passing continues to go so well for you, man. Sweet deal!

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Guest brandt

haha how funny.

i get that all the time. lol like ok this first week i didnt have to wear the skirt cuz we have uniforms. and well everyone besides the close friends and ppl know me, think i'm a boy. even teachers that dont know me and i love it. haha but i'm afraid about monday cuz i might have to wear the skirt =[ grr. i'm gonna convince my mom that i dont want to. but anyway yea ppl think i'm a boy and before everyone was like why is that boy wearing a skirt? it was so uncomfortable but funny how funny it looks on me when i pass sooooo well as a boy. so yeah its nice =]

funny story man. great that you passed.

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Guest theEND
haha how funny.

i get that all the time. lol like ok this first week i didnt have to wear the skirt cuz we have uniforms. and well everyone besides the close friends and ppl know me, think i'm a boy. even teachers that dont know me and i love it. haha but i'm afraid about monday cuz i might have to wear the skirt =[ grr. i'm gonna convince my mom that i dont want to. but anyway yea ppl think i'm a boy and before everyone was like why is that boy wearing a skirt? it was so uncomfortable but funny how funny it looks on me when i pass sooooo well as a boy. so yeah its nice =]

funny story man. great that you passed.

lol that made me laugh. Reminds me of a time when I some how ended up being dragged in to model a hoody in a fashion shoe, I thought it sounded fair enough at the time. But anyway I get there and I'm wearing the hoody, some jeans and converses and this really irritating girl in my class is dangling some high heels infront of my face telling me 'aww babe you'll look lovely don't worry'. So, I end up clumping down this stupid runway in gold sparkly high heels [with of course went so brilliantly with the jet black hoody and guy's jeans] and almost going flat on my face when I tripped.

They never asked me to volunteer for a fashion show again.

:D

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Guest My_Genesis

This isn't nearly as awesome nor as funny because I'm still seen as a girl to everyone else, only like 2 people know about this trans thing..lol..so anyway I just graduated HS, and i think it was around march or april, we had this AP Exam review class thing, and I came in late, and when I came in, this girl jumped up because we were playing this game and I had really good grades in that class, so she wanted me on their team..lol... and apparently the girl forgot my name because when I walked in she started saying "The guy with the sweater! The guy with the sweater!" Even though she knows me as a girl..lol..I still thought it was so cool when she said that. I was so happy about it but I was pretending that i just thought it was really funny, and I was still getting weird looks, because everyone was probably wondering why I thought it was so funny... :rolleyes: ...What if I had told the truth and said i was just really happy she called me a guy? -_-

But yeah that's pretty cool, and I have pretty much 0% attraction to guys, but based on your picture you do look like a pretty cute guy. :)

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Guest JulianCarsen

haha yeah. she still sat by me so i think she got over it.

I had a bathroom encounter today too.

basically if you dont KNOW me. you think im a boy. at my school at least haha.

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Guest JulianCarsen
didn't you say you're pre-T/pre-op? That makes it even cooler that everyone already thinks you're a boy B)

Yeah im pre... coming out too.

im getting top surgery but im not even sure i need T. people think im a guy generally anyways. but its more of a 14 year old guy haha.

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Guest harvester52

Awesome that you pass that well, Carsen.

But I feel you with the age thing. I tried to bum a smoke the other day (I'm almost 19 years old), and the person I was bumming from said, "No way, bro, you're like twelve!"

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I always live in dread of when they find out I'm a "girl." Well it doesn't happen so much anymore, because I'm not out at work, and I quit school.

But I remember that used to happen all the time. I'd pass and everything, and then someone would use a male pronoun on me around someone who knew I was a "girl," and there would be this whole "um that's a girl" awkward horrible discussion, and then the new person would think I was weird til they got to know me better. And then they'd "accept me" and "think I was really awesome."

Here's the thing:

I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO BE ACCEPTED. I just want to be regular.

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Haha wow dude, she must've been mortified, at least she got over it tho :D

Great story, & even greater how you're passing without T or surgery, lucky duck XD

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Guest My_Genesis
Here's the thing:

I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO BE ACCEPTED. I just want to be regular.

same here dude. I know exactly what you mean..I'm tired of trying to get people to accept me, and feeling like if they knew the truth about me, I wouldn't be accepted. I want to be like everyone else and I'm tired of feeling alienated...everyone else wants to be different, be unique, and stand out..I'm trying to blend in. I mean, people think I blend in, but that's because they don't know me. And even though everyone thinks I blend in with them, I always feel like I'm standing out. If I were to mention this to a large number of people, I would feel like I'm standing out even more, which is why I keep quiet about it.

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