Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Funny Passing Story


Guest JulianCarsen

Recommended Posts

Guest JulianCarsen

So i just started my senior year and its my second year at this high school.

Over the summer i started binding and just have really gotten a lot more male looking.

So im closing up on my first week of school.

i've passed multiple times. almost everyone that doesnt know me thinks im a boy its awesome.

So in a photo class im taking this Freshman girl has just been really flirty and like... drawin on me and talking to me and even MADE me sit next to her when i chose a table other than the one she was sitting at.

i was just being friendly cause... well... shes 14 and im not into that haha

she apparently forgot my name today and was asking me what it was and i was just playing around and wouldnt tell her.

so she stands up and goes..

"Ms G whats his name!?"

so for the whole 4 days of talking to me... a lot

she still thought i was a boy and had a crush on me.

Granted i was ecstatic that i passed so well i felt sort of bad. the girl was horrified. = /

oh well... haha

her first high school crush was a transman. oh well.

at least she has a fun story?

Link to comment

xD Ahaha, oh man. Now that really is a multi-layer story. Congratulations on passing so well, dayum. I'm slowly getting better at passing myself, but I'm going into my senior year in a school with people I've been in school with since 6th grade, so. Wow, what a shock to that freshman, eh? You're right though, once she gets over it, she'll have an interesting story to tell. Hopefully not in the form of embarresed-fueled rumors...

Anyways, hope passing continues to go so well for you, man. Sweet deal!

Link to comment
Guest brandt

haha how funny.

i get that all the time. lol like ok this first week i didnt have to wear the skirt cuz we have uniforms. and well everyone besides the close friends and ppl know me, think i'm a boy. even teachers that dont know me and i love it. haha but i'm afraid about monday cuz i might have to wear the skirt =[ grr. i'm gonna convince my mom that i dont want to. but anyway yea ppl think i'm a boy and before everyone was like why is that boy wearing a skirt? it was so uncomfortable but funny how funny it looks on me when i pass sooooo well as a boy. so yeah its nice =]

funny story man. great that you passed.

Link to comment
Guest theEND
haha how funny.

i get that all the time. lol like ok this first week i didnt have to wear the skirt cuz we have uniforms. and well everyone besides the close friends and ppl know me, think i'm a boy. even teachers that dont know me and i love it. haha but i'm afraid about monday cuz i might have to wear the skirt =[ grr. i'm gonna convince my mom that i dont want to. but anyway yea ppl think i'm a boy and before everyone was like why is that boy wearing a skirt? it was so uncomfortable but funny how funny it looks on me when i pass sooooo well as a boy. so yeah its nice =]

funny story man. great that you passed.

lol that made me laugh. Reminds me of a time when I some how ended up being dragged in to model a hoody in a fashion shoe, I thought it sounded fair enough at the time. But anyway I get there and I'm wearing the hoody, some jeans and converses and this really irritating girl in my class is dangling some high heels infront of my face telling me 'aww babe you'll look lovely don't worry'. So, I end up clumping down this stupid runway in gold sparkly high heels [with of course went so brilliantly with the jet black hoody and guy's jeans] and almost going flat on my face when I tripped.

They never asked me to volunteer for a fashion show again.

:D

Link to comment
Guest My_Genesis

This isn't nearly as awesome nor as funny because I'm still seen as a girl to everyone else, only like 2 people know about this trans thing..lol..so anyway I just graduated HS, and i think it was around march or april, we had this AP Exam review class thing, and I came in late, and when I came in, this girl jumped up because we were playing this game and I had really good grades in that class, so she wanted me on their team..lol... and apparently the girl forgot my name because when I walked in she started saying "The guy with the sweater! The guy with the sweater!" Even though she knows me as a girl..lol..I still thought it was so cool when she said that. I was so happy about it but I was pretending that i just thought it was really funny, and I was still getting weird looks, because everyone was probably wondering why I thought it was so funny... :rolleyes: ...What if I had told the truth and said i was just really happy she called me a guy? -_-

But yeah that's pretty cool, and I have pretty much 0% attraction to guys, but based on your picture you do look like a pretty cute guy. :)

Link to comment
Guest JulianCarsen

haha yeah. she still sat by me so i think she got over it.

I had a bathroom encounter today too.

basically if you dont KNOW me. you think im a boy. at my school at least haha.

Link to comment
Guest JulianCarsen
didn't you say you're pre-T/pre-op? That makes it even cooler that everyone already thinks you're a boy B)

Yeah im pre... coming out too.

im getting top surgery but im not even sure i need T. people think im a guy generally anyways. but its more of a 14 year old guy haha.

Link to comment
Guest harvester52

Awesome that you pass that well, Carsen.

But I feel you with the age thing. I tried to bum a smoke the other day (I'm almost 19 years old), and the person I was bumming from said, "No way, bro, you're like twelve!"

Link to comment

I always live in dread of when they find out I'm a "girl." Well it doesn't happen so much anymore, because I'm not out at work, and I quit school.

But I remember that used to happen all the time. I'd pass and everything, and then someone would use a male pronoun on me around someone who knew I was a "girl," and there would be this whole "um that's a girl" awkward horrible discussion, and then the new person would think I was weird til they got to know me better. And then they'd "accept me" and "think I was really awesome."

Here's the thing:

I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO BE ACCEPTED. I just want to be regular.

Link to comment

Haha wow dude, she must've been mortified, at least she got over it tho :D

Great story, & even greater how you're passing without T or surgery, lucky duck XD

Link to comment
Guest My_Genesis
Here's the thing:

I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO BE ACCEPTED. I just want to be regular.

same here dude. I know exactly what you mean..I'm tired of trying to get people to accept me, and feeling like if they knew the truth about me, I wouldn't be accepted. I want to be like everyone else and I'm tired of feeling alienated...everyone else wants to be different, be unique, and stand out..I'm trying to blend in. I mean, people think I blend in, but that's because they don't know me. And even though everyone thinks I blend in with them, I always feel like I'm standing out. If I were to mention this to a large number of people, I would feel like I'm standing out even more, which is why I keep quiet about it.

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   8 Members, 0 Anonymous, 181 Guests (See full list)

    • Cyndee
    • Mmindy
    • Petra Jane
    • ClaireBloom
    • MaryEllen
    • Stacie.H
    • Adrianna Danielle
    • TransNameA
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      769.9k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,087
    • Most Online
      8,356

    TransNameA
    Newest Member
    TransNameA
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. FullyHart
      FullyHart
    2. MariPosa
      MariPosa
      (65 years old)
    3. pechenezhka
      pechenezhka
      (17 years old)
    4. Rubycd
      Rubycd
      (59 years old)
    5. Yana
      Yana
      (31 years old)
  • Posts

    • Ivy
      Everybody doesn't feel this way. As a AMAB child (in the 50's) I don't think I questioned my body, but I was quite fascinated with girl stuff.  When puberty hit I really wished I was a girl - but alas - I was stuck living as a guy.  As an adult I had pretty bad  homophobia, which was probably internalized transphobia, but I didn't really know what transgender was at the time.  And by then I was locked into a marriage and family. I lived like that for most of my life, and convinced myself (but not my wife) that I was happy.  When we were in our 60's, the marriage fell apart.  And I believe a large part of that was me resisting my feminine self.  When I no longer had to live up to being a man, I dared to take another peek inside, and my egg cracked big time. I still don't think I was "born in the wrong body."  Maybe it just needed a little tweaking. I think our "gender" is an internal thing.   I don't regret having lived so long trying to be a guy.  But if I could have transitioned as a child it would have been awesome.
    • Adrianna Danielle
      Said it is possibly ptsd and anxiety,wants a second opinion.
    • Mmindy
      @Adrianna DanielleSeeing two different therapist for separate issues really helped me deal with the each of them on different levels. I hope this works for you too.   Hugs,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Adrianna Danielle
      My life is back on track.I lost both of my parents at age 24 before I came our,dad to a heart attack and mom to drugs.Good thing is my other family members have been there support.The VA pays for my transition,did 4 years in the Army
    • Adrianna Danielle
      I have been having issues from my past and going to get help for.It has been from my parents whom are deceased that forced me into being the person whom I really was not before I came out.Therspist I see for my transitioning said going to refer me a therapist that deals with ptsd and anxiety issues.
    • Charlize
      I seem to remember the word "deplorables" being used not long ago.  Unfortunately so often appropriate.   Hugs,   Charlize
    • Charlize
      It was not that long ago that black people were banned from the University of Mississippi.  Schools were segregated and the same excuse of protecting the women (or girls) of old miss.  Times and many feeling have changed with time and federal intervention.  Unfortunately politicians love to separate and divide to gain power.     Hugs,   Charlize
    • Mmindy
      I agree @Birdieto just "fit in", is what drove us to therapy. I'm not fitting in just to please someone with a closed mind. At least you know who your fair weather friends are now.   Hugs,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Birdie
      Yesterday in the lobby some of the residents were talking with me. One asked, "how come in all the TV commercials at the centre you don't appear in any of them?"   I explained that, "I'm an embarrassment to the centre and they don't know what to do with me." I get edited out!   Quite the differing options with the ladies at the table as some of them said, "that's discrimination", while others said, "they can see why."   Another lady said, "you would fair better if you cut your hair and went back to overalls, you should strive to fit in!"   Their opinions are as meaningful to me as rubbish. I did 45 years of trying to "fit in", and not doing that again. 😉
    • Heather Shay
      RIP David Sanborn - another amazing musician lost to us.  
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Gosh, missed Monday again.   Did you know that Producer Keith Oslen was distraught because the duo his recorded Buckingham-Nicks first album went nowhere? In walked Mick Fleetwood also distraught because once again Flleetwood Mac lost a guitarist in Bob Welsh and he was at least going studio shopping and came to Sound City in LA because he'd heard the drum sound they got there was incredible. He asked Oslen to play something recorded there. Olsen played some of Buckingham-Nicks and Fleetwood loved the sound of the guitarist and wanted Buckingham. Olsen said he comes with Nicks because Olsen managed both. Fleetwood didn't want Nicks but eventually the remaining Mac members said okay and next thing you know - the Fleetwood Mac that scored a huge following was born. Sadly right after the "Fleetwood Mac" album and before "rumours" was recorded, the band got huge headed and got rid of Oslen so they didn't have to play him a lot of music they wanted to keep. Olsen did ok after by recording Ozzy Osbourne, the Grateful Dead, Whitesnake, Pat Benatar, Heart, Santana, Saga, Foreigner, Scorpions, Journey, The Babys, Emerson, Lake & Palmer, Joe Walsh, 38 Special, and Eric Burdon & the Animals, among others. BTW - Olsen was also a members in 1967 of a band called Music Machine (not the James Taylor one) that scored a huge hit with the song "Talk Talk"
    • Heather Shay
      Still on contentment high from Sunday.
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...