Why do I feel this way when I Crossdress

[Guest Happy Alice]

When I crossdress I get really nervous and my heart just starts pounding very quickly. My heart pounds quickly that I cant even move and its like this until I take my clothes off and I feel really excited purified.

[Guest Isabella_Anne]

Well,

I can only speak for myself of course, but when I was younger when I dressed as a girl I was very excited at first and then I would calm down and it just felt right. I would get very depressed when it was time to take off the clothes or when I allowed on of my parents to see me dressed (usually mom).

Isabella

[Guest Sarahwr]

Hi.

I think your reaction is natural.

When I dress as Sarah it is a ritual whereby I transform my self from my male persona to my female one.

If I have done something I am proud of during the day I will reward myself with this ritual.

It comprises of me getting all my things together, clothes, shoes etc and being in the bathroom for an hour or so; and yes my partner does comment that I take longer than she does.

Then I shave twice, shower and if necessary I will shave my legs to cut down the small growth I have had since last time.

I will then adorn myself with my female clothes and put on my make-up.

I step into the shower as me, a mixed up male, and step out as a confident and happy female.

Whats not to be excited about:-)

Enjoy whatever feelings you have.

Lots of hugzzzzzzz,

Sarah

[Guest brandi65]

Hun its a natural reaction that we all have when we start out. i felt that way for about the first year that i dressed. after i got over the excitement,just like Isabella said, it felt so very right.

Brandi

[Guest ChloëC]

Hi Alice,

Some people have covered it. It's a mix of emotions, getting a chance to get closer to how you have felt inside almost every moment of your life. I'm sure there is some sexual arousal involved, especially since like most of us, you have looked from afar at all there is and can be to wear, and now you're actually getting your chance. And often, since it can only be done surreptitiously (in secret), that usually means not very often, so when you can, that in itself can heighten the emotions.

In some ways, I suppose, it's like a young girl dressing up in a wedding dress or Mom's big girl clothes, imagining the woman they will be growing into and all the times ahead. We have to grab those moments when we can.

However, as you do it more, and feel more comfortable with yourself, that's when you should really begin to explore your emotions and yourself for what you exactly want. Is the thrill enough? Or do you want to get beyond that and just feel comfortable and begin doing things that often appear normal, just enjoying the whole experience. I just hung out laundry on an out side line and will be vacuuming parts of the house, dressed in a skirt, tank, heeled sandals, wig, etc. That's a wonderful feeling in itself, just to be doing normal everyday things.

Whatever makes you feel good about yourself as long as you don't hurt yourself (and try not to hurt others).

Hugz

Chloë