when dressed

[Guest kimberly c]

Hi Girls, I know I have said this before, I love the female role in bed. I am a hetrosexual crossdresser, yet when dressed

my feelings are more bisexual. does anyone else feel this way?

Love Kim

[Guest Sarah Miller]

Yes, I totally agree. I have always been hetero but in the last year or so when dressed I have often imagined what it might be like to be with a man and myself as fem.

xx Sarah

[Petra Jane]

So long as you only imagine it! (For your own safety).

[Guest Wendae]

What Sarah Miller said!

[Guest Sarah Miller]

I was thinking about this today when I was trying on some skirts that I no longer get sexual arousal when dressing as fem. Very early on (years ago) I would try to steal a moment here and there and it was all very exciting and often an erection would happen, making tucking impossible. But I didn't care and I over the thrill of the moment.

When I dress now, arousal has been replaced by the confidence to dress nicely without resorting to little dresses and tight things (I do have a little bit of this, experimentation is all fun) but I take pride in selecting a nice skirt, a cardigan or sweater to match. Also the feeling of desire has replaced arousal. The desire to dress everyday (not possible at the moment), the desire to look like Sarah full-time (this is on my mind almost 24/7 now) and the desire to be totally comfortable with myself doing this. The last part is still not quite there but I can feel it growing. I look in the mirror and I now see a beautiful woman looking back at me. Sure, I still tilt my head and jut my hips to strike a pose but it is done to highlight and to remind myself of the transformation I can achieve.

My medium term (shot is not enough time yet) would be to go out sometime, dress completely in a nice work skirt etc. and be able to totally pass as a woman on the street, perhaps on a lunch break or something. They still is a little way off. I guess my ultimate desire is that I could be become and be accepted as female one day. From where I'm standing at the moment it seems a long way off.

I just took one little pic today, just wanted a causal shot of me in a simple skirt and top. Nothing flash, my hair is even a little messy as well.

xxo Sarah