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I told my 2 best friends at school about me being trans. Nicole is straight and Sven is gay...but they both are awesome friends. I told Nicole in our first hour class in a note sort of randomly. I told Sven in a "letter" more or less. And he started screaming in the hallway "I knew it! I knew it!" Nicole basically said it's a little weird but she was cool with it. Nicole was the one I was most afraid of telling becuase I wasn't sure on what she would say about it. That's why I am friends with her is cuz she always surprises me with her reactions. My other buddy, Sarah, was home sick today and so I am going to give her it tomorrow if she is there.

Anyway, I was just really happy and proud of myself. That's not exactly something I do. I usually plan things out and stuff like that.

Oh and this girl Dylan...who is amazingly hot. Keeps hitting on me but insists she's straight. Yea right....

Example 1- This morning I got to school and then she parked next to me. I was waiting for Nicole to get there so I was just sitting in my truck listening to music. She lays down on my hood...I'm like Oh my goodness? So I get out and she's like "Hey Joe!" She said something about she thought that would get my attention. Then she tries walking away and I called her back to give me a hug (and it wasn't one of those "yay we're friends hugs" either). She did then grabs my derrierre and says she'll see me later.

Example 2- At lunch today I was in my truck getting ready to leave and she lays on my hood again. So I get out give her a hug and she grabs my derrierre...again. And then asks where I'm going to lunch at (she's still hanging around my neck so I do the male instinct and put my hands on her waist) I tell her I'm going to my mom's place. She lets go so I get in the truck. She gets back on the hood and I tell her my truck looks prettier that way so she can stay as long as she wants. Put it this way she didn't get off til I started moving.

Anyone else think she's hitting on me?

---Joey

PS there is a picture of my truck in my gallery and it's not very pretty!

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Guest Nekomata

That's cool that Sven 'knew'. Was he angry screaming, or happy screaming though? I didn't quite get the full impression of your reaction.

Dylan, as far as I know, is straight. I mean, you're a guy, and she calls you by your guy name, and she's attracted to your maleness, right? That's as straight as it gets.

Although, if I were you, I'd take it with a grain of salt. Does she know you're trans? Maybe she's just a chaser, or curious. Lots of people treat transgender individuals as an anomaly, I hate to say it. She might not be fully interested in you for you, and she just might be looking for a fling. And that's cool if it's all you want, too, or if it's what you're expecting. Mis-expectations can lead to hurt feelings and broken hearts. Be safe and have fun!

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Guest joeytheman16

Nekomata-

He was happy screaming. I don't think I have ever seen him scream cuz he was mad.

Dylan doesn't know that I'm trans...at least not that I know of. But Dylan has only known me as Joe. SO I don't even know if she thinks I could be ftm.

Konnor-

Dude you rock! lol thanks a lot for everything.

---Joey

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Guest joeytheman16

Thanks everyone for replying.

Seth-- Nicole is just...like that. She hasn't treated me any different or anything. It's just something new to her. I've asked some of her friends and they still insist that she's straight.

Konnor-- I sure frikin' hope I get her.

Evan-- Very true point. I'm not even sure that she knows that I am physically female. So I guess it really doesn't matter...cept if she's bi I deffinently wouldn't argue about trying anything new...

---Joey

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Guest joeytheman16

I do have a girlfriend. And I'm not trying to say that I would leave my girlfriend for Dylan. But if something did happen I wouldn't turn Dylan down.

Btw- I found out she does now know that I am trans...thanks to sven and his over-sized mouth!

---Joey

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Guest Becky Lynn

Dear Joe,

A word to the wise. Be very carefull of who you tell this to in school. Even though someone is you best friend and you feel you can trust them, somehow word gets out. If the wrong people get a hold of this information they can and WILL make your senior year a living hell. Very few people understand us and are afraid of us (people fear what they don't understand). Even at 52 I have to be very careful, there are people out there if they only knew wouldn't hesitate to beat the living crap out of me just because I'm differant. This goes the same for you, you may think this turns the chicks on but be carefull because Joe Dumbbass Talk With My Fists will be knocking on your door. My wife is a junior/ senior high school teacher she knows first hand of what happens in school. I suggest that if anyone brings this up tell them that you were just joking having a little fun you didn't really mean it even to your best friends. They may get a little peed off at you, but that's better than getting the snot beat out of you. Don't mention this again until you graduate then if your still friends with these people and you feel they need to know, This would be the time to tell them. After you graduate you will no longer see the people you are with right now, you will go your way they will go their's. This includes the people that will give you trouble. This goes the same when your in college or in the workplace. I would hate to hear that something bad happened to you.

I wish you luck and Godspeed,

Becky Lynn :)

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Guest joeytheman16

Seth-lol I'm pretty sure and a mutual friend of ours says that she does.

Becky Lynn- I understand what your saying. But my friends already knew so it was pointless. And Sven didn't let anyone else hear what he told Dylan. He only told her and I trust her so it's ok with me. I actually think that the place I live is a fairly safe place to come out to people. Most of the population is strict hardcore morman. I mean the "oh my gosh I just killed a bug I'm going to hell" people. And if they aren't morman then they are too scared of me to do anything about it.

---Joey

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Guest Becky Lynn
Seth-lol I'm pretty sure and a mutual friend of ours says that she does.

Becky Lynn- I understand what your saying. But my friends already knew so it was pointless. And Sven didn't let anyone else hear what he told Dylan. He only told her and I trust her so it's ok with me. I actually think that the place I live is a fairly safe place to come out to people. Most of the population is strict hardcore morman. I mean the "oh my gosh I just killed a bug I'm going to hell" people. And if they aren't morman then they are too scared of me to do anything about it.

---Joey

Hi,

No matter what Be Careful! I'm originally from Cleveland, now I live in a small town in WV. A very conservative community very differant from a large city. No matter where you go there'll be ignorant narrow minded ******** out there. I probably never will "come out". I'm married and have a close knit family, coming out would just compromise my relationships. I work too hard in my marrage and relationships to jeopardize them. Coming out takes a lot of testicles and I admire anyone's courage to do this. Make sure your friends keep this all to themselves. There are too many --Censored-- out there. If you need anyone to talk to, drop me a line.

Take care,

Becky :)

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Guest joeytheman16

Ray- Anytime you wanna hear some funny high school stories just let me know.

Becky- Thanks for the advice. I understand what your saying. My friends like I said, are the few people I have ever trusted enough to tell them anything important. Coming out does take testicles and even when I did I was still scared half to death. Thanks for letting me know I can talk to you.

---Joey

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