Took my son shopping

[Guest allysongr]

Took my son shopping Aaron shopping and he was dressed as Alley.Took him to a girl's clothing store and picked out a few nice tops and jeans.Luckily the owner was good to him and never said a mean thing at all.Also bought him his first pairs of pantyhose,3 pairs of tan,3 pairs of Brown,3 pairs of Off Black and 3 pairs of Jet black.Happy with his new pieces in his wardrobe.I even took him to my friend Erica to have his ears pierced,Saw I went through it and told him it stings a little bit.Believed me and has studs in no one will not notice.It was fun and saw him happy.

[JJ]

That was a wonderful thing to do! Your support means so very much.

You are the parent so many of us wish ours had been

Johnny

[Guest allysongr]

I love my son a lot showing it and I know this is his way expressing himself.I see he is very happy too.My mom does the same to him,gets him gifts cards to girl's clothing stores each year for Christmas.I already figured out his Christmas present this year too,a couple pairs of small hoop earrings.Sees I do wear hoop earrings a lot and likes them too

[Guest kimberly c]

Hi your support is awesome. We all wish for that same support from our family members.

Love Kim

[Carolyn Marie]

That's great, hon. I can just imagine how happy he is with those close, and with your love and support. I'll bet he is anticipating Christmas, for sure.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

[Guest thomasina uk]

Took my son shopping Aaron shopping and he was dressed as Alley.Took him to a girl's clothing store and picked out a few nice tops and jeans.Luckily the owner was good to him and never said a mean thing at all.Also bought him his first pairs of pantyhose,3 pairs of tan,3 pairs of Brown,3 pairs of Off Black and 3 pairs of Jet black.Happy with his new pieces in his wardrobe.I even took him to my friend Erica to have his ears pierced,Saw I went through it and told him it stings a little bit.Believed me and has studs in no one will not notice.It was fun and saw him happy.

Wow, i am so envious .Your son is sooooooo lucky to have such open minded parents, that is the sort of support I longed for as a child rather than having to feel ashamed of my tendencies.

T

[Guest MeganBr]

I'm a heterosexuality CDer. I'm divorced (not for CDing, but bad choice of women) and have 3 boys two teenagers and a 5 year old. They mother has never been there for them. Doesn't really do anything with or for them. So, I'm left to be Dad and Mom. I'm a lite CDer you could say. I wear panties and a sometime a bra, women's socks and jeans. I have to be carefully of what I wear when my teenagers are around (due to what kind of ridicule they will get from their friends and school.) My little one is around me all the time and sees me in my nicer jeans, shirts, shoes, and panties. Some of my clothes he likes. He want some panties and jeans like daddy. I know the reason is cause daddy does it and he wants to be just like daddy. I don't want to tell him that he can't but at the same time I don't want to tell him that it's ok. I don't want him to grow up being made fun of and not understand why. Has anyone had this problem? If so how should I encourage him to be himself with encouraging him?

[Guest Karen K]

God bless you for accepting and supporting Alley. You are truly a loving parent.

Laura Jane

[Guest Nicole.cd]

well the owner or the man/woman who hepls you choosing clothes cant say anything wrong about anyone cause they are there to help the client

[Guest gg_br_alex]

He want some panties and jeans like daddy. I know the reason is cause daddy does it and he wants to be just like daddy. I don't want to tell him that he can't but at the same time I don't want to tell him that it's ok. I don't want him to grow up being made fun of and not understand why. Has anyone had this problem? If so how should I encourage him to be himself with encouraging him?

In my opinion...I honestly think that, whatever a kid does, whatever trace of character a kid shows, he/she will be alright as long as his/her parents are loving and supporting. If that happens the kid will have what it takes to cope with society's criticisms: self esteem.

I think everyone deals with traumas thoughout life. But (remember, it is my opinion) the worst dramas people have to deal with are usually related to lack of self esteem and self assurance. And those are usually related to issues caused by parents unsupportive or abusive parents.

My point being: I think kids must be left to express themselves as they go. Having interest in crossdressing isn't something all children do. I think, if a boy develops such interest, it's probably not just a random thing! Somethings are born with us. If you have a son that enjoys girl clothes, being supportive and letting him go as he wills, will probably save him lots of trouble as he gets older.

I must stress that this is my opinion. I might be wrong, but this makes sense to me.

[Guest *Charlotte P*]

What a loving and supportive parent!! you are an inspiration Ally!

Hugs

Charlotte