What To Wear For A Big Day? Really Important

[Guest BrittaneyJ]

I am going to a party and it is a really big one. I have never been out in public dressed as a girl and I want to know what I should wear. It is a huge rave in Los Angeles that I am going to and I want to look my best. Please advise

[haythorx]

Are you sure that a rave would be the best place to dress for the first time? It sounds like it could get a little rough.

[Guest Tommy]

dress like a girl idk

[Guest Keira]

I'm kinda thinking the same as haythorx. For someone who's never dressed in public before, going to a rave might be jumping into the deep end. But I guess it's your call. If you wanna go dressed as a girl, just find something that suits your style and feels comfortable. And if you're gonna be dancing, make sure you pick suitable shoes hehe

[Guest Nelly]

Hi,

take that what other girls wear on a rave. From the big range of clothing take that what is best for you to hide the male part and to highlight the female part of you.

Greetings

Nelly

[Guest colleengurl]

I have the same problem i have just been invited to meet the membership secretary of a T.V.C.D.Crossdressing group in regard to membership.

I thought i had explained (via email) that i didnt dress out so to speak but on the phone she said to come dressed in male mode,when i said that was my normal form of dress she said oh you are deep in the closet then,i said well i suppose i am, she said what will you wear (we are meeting at a Hotel dining room) i said i will wear a red polo shirt and long shorts so she can identify me.

I have tried this outfit on and the shorts legs seem to be so close together when i am walking it looks like a skirt.

I actually look quite nice in this outfit the polo shirt has a satin finish and looks really nice.

What i am wondering should i try to look more fem, ie with perhaps jewellry and polished nails or not.

I would like to be accepted into this group but am quite scared:wub:

[Petra Jane]

I have the same problem i have just been invited to meet the membership secretary of a T.V.C.D.Crossdressing group in regard to membership.

I thought i had explained (via email) that i didnt dress out so to speak but on the phone she said to come dressed in male mode,when i said that was my normal form of dress she said oh you are deep in the closet then,i said well i suppose i am, she said what will you wear (we are meeting at a Hotel dining room) i said i will wear a red polo shirt and long shorts so she can identify me.

I have tried this outfit on and the shorts legs seem to be so close together when i am walking it looks like a skirt.

I actually look quite nice in this outfit the polo shirt has a satin finish and looks really nice.

What i am wondering should i try to look more fem, ie with perhaps jewellry and polished nails or not.

I would like to be accepted into this group but am quite scared:wub:

I would say go as you feel most comfortable and safest, I know I can't really say much as I daren't go out of the house dressed, but go with the hopes of being accepted, but accept that if they cannot accept you as you are, do you really want to accept them?

[Guest AnnaH]

It is always hard dressing up for the first time. I know that personally, though I am usually around good friends and in "safe" areas, I do still get that slight anxiety and worry about people staring at me. Eventually it will go away, and the nervousness decreases over time as it becomes more natural to you, but be patient and give it time. As for the first question, when in doubt: wear a dress. I own about ten dresses that I simply adore and I find nothing more comfortable and free flowing than a casual dress. For the second question, the person who claimed you were "deep in the closet" really had no right to say something like that (and it is actually very unprofessional of them). It is your choice what to where, as you can be just as feminine in shorts as you could in a dress. You should feel comfortable and safe, and if you are comfortable in shorts and a satin-like polo, then wear it out with pride.