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The Way You Think About Your Body.


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Hey all,

I know I'm not even a "confirmed" TS yet, but thinking about being a woman has changed the way I think about my body.

Before this realization occurred, I cared little for how I looked as a male and wasn't ever really "impressed" with how I looked. I mean I thought I looked alright, but if I looked kinda terrible, I didn't really care.

Now that I'm thinking this body may be (more) womanly someday, I have the willpower to workout and I want to look good! I want to be pretty/cute/beautiful just like every girl does.

Has anyone else had this same experience??

Dr M

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I went through the same thing. In fact my change occurred just a few months ago. I didn't care about how I looked though I was picky on the clothing I wore. I avoided anything too guyish. Now I pay extra atention to how I look, trying to reverse the damage already done. Evil acne!!! :angry:

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I think thats actually kind of normal for peeps who are transgendered (I could be wrong and if someone has a different experience please feel free to voice it). I have at two different times in life "tried" to look/exist as the birth gender and in each of them the level of depression I hit included really not caring about how I looked. I actually "hated" doing anything positive to the form. I hated the foundation, couldn't bear a mirror, was humiliated and ashamed in the way any cisgender man would seeing himself with women's parts, so why would I want to interact with it? (Cleansing my mind now of even the spectacle....)

As male though (clothing, manner, personal affects) I love what I see and how it causes me to feel to the point I'm happy to do things for the body; work out, be meticulous about my grooming, want to be nicely dressed squint and scrutinize the haircut from the barber, everything.

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Hi,

for me it is same like Evan_J told. First of all, all the girls around says I look good. But I think not. When I look to my body there are some points or parts I do not like the shape. I think my legs are to thin my butt is to small, my waistline is to fat, my chest is to big and my breast is to flat. I allways thought that this is cuased by having not enough muscles. I have to look like a atlethic man. Bu than one day I realize that if you take all together you get a female body.

I do sport and I also need to do some body building because I have bad muscles in may back. But I do not liked the idea to get a turkey still breast.

Know I make a diet to reduce body fat to remove the fat belly belt to get a better female shape. I also wear a corset sometimes and think to get one with can form the ribcage to get the v-shape of a female body. For thicker legs and butt I think only hormons can help.

When I start acctepting that I may be a girl, I can see a female face in the mirror when I smile but it still look the same.

I also do not like to shave my facial hair every two days. I think to make a permanent hair removal. It is okay because I never want to wear a beard. It is good to be accepted as a man without facial hair. Know it is still going more and more and after shaving it leave the blue taint I do not like.

I got the light bulb moment that I want to be /am a girl when I add all my body blemish.

Greetings

Nelly

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Hey all,

I know I'm not even a "confirmed" TS yet, but thinking about being a woman has changed the way I think about my body.

Before this realization occurred, I cared little for how I looked as a male and wasn't ever really "impressed" with how I looked. I mean I thought I looked alright, but if I looked kinda terrible, I didn't really care.

Now that I'm thinking this body may be (more) womanly someday, I have the willpower to workout and I want to look good! I want to be pretty/cute/beautiful just like every girl does.

Has anyone else had this same experience??

Dr M

Yes. My wife says that once I started hormones, I became much more fussy and much more modest about my body. I rarely pass a mirror without adjust my hair and I always make sure my shirt is buttoned so not to show cleveage.

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