Is it Possible for Sexuality to "Change?"

[Guest Megan_Lynn]

Yes and no. I do belive transistion and hrt will alow ones mind to open up more and except things about themselfs they could not before. I do belive sexuality is set at birth but people deal with it differently. Myself since I was in no way a gay man ever there was no way my mind would even let myself think of a man in a romantic/sexual way. After starting transsition and getting the large amount of testosterone out of my system my sexuality seemed to shift a good bit and it confused the crap out of me. Before I had always seen men as Neanderthals. Transistion made me start to see some a bit differently. While hariy men are still very yucky for me I have had an atraction to some of the men whom keep ther bodys more on the hairless side( aka hardbodys, wrestlers ect). Personaly i feel my sexuality is more in the bisexual area. I like woman for two reasons wanting to be them( finaly made it) and because I genuinely desire them in a romantic/sexual way. Since transistion my desires for woman are a tad bit more romantic then sexual though. As for men I just can not see having the same romantic/intamacy levels as i could with a woman but. Can see how I could be sexualy involved with one. Yes it would be nice to for once be the one held by strong arms making me feel secure. Will this ever happen who knows. At this time I have a great woman in my life who takes awsome care of me is so many ways and would do nothing to mess it up. So the answer is yes( my opion) your sexuality can cahnge but only because you were surpressing in in the first place..

[Guest KarenLyn]

Wow. I seem to be in a real minority. My sexuality hasn't changed at all. I've always been bi with a preference for men. The only difference is that now is I will openly flirt with guys. In the past that could have been hazardous to my health.

Karen

[Guest Maitane]

Right now I really can not be honest with my self and choose a gender to be attracted to. I believe that just like diets, HRT will effect everyone differently. I just hope whom ever it will be I will be as happy as a woman which is so exciting to think.

[Guest Ravyn]

When I am in man-mode the thought of being intimate with a man is clearly not my thing. However, when in fem-mode which is my preferred state of being, I find myself attracted to men and when seeing a romantic scene in a movie, my identification is completely with the woman.