My Dream

[Guest Sandy]

My greatest wish would be shopping with my wife, which I absolutly love. As we are walking through the store, I wish she would look me in the face and ask if she could help pick out a new outfit for me. I might get tears in my eyes. It was so tough keeping my crossdressing a secret for so long, I still can't gather up my courage to ask her to help me shop. No I'm not afraid of her, I'm afraid of losing her love. She now knows that I crossdress. She's never seen me except on Holloween once. I think she noticed how extremely happy I was. I think it scared her to. We have been married for almost 30 years and she has only known about me cding for the last two. I'm hoping that she noticed I'm the same person I have always been. To bad she doesn't want to see me dressed, I believe it makes me feel much calmer and happier the little time I can dress. So yes, I think one of the happiest days of my life would be if we shopped for me. Sorry for my long letter, what would make some of you really happy?

Bye for now

Sandy

[MaryEllen]

Hi Sandy,

Welcome to the Playground. Don't ever be afraid to dream. Perhaps one day your dream will come true.

MaryEllen

[Guest Veronica Fallon]

Hi Sandy,

I won't offer you advice since there's so much good info out there about helping wives understand & hopefully appreciate our gifts, but I will wish you the best of luck with your lady-love.

My first thought after reading your question was that a TG-related theme-park would be awesome, especially for us girls just venturing out of our cozy, safe closets. Just think of it- everything decorated very feminine, specialty (discounted!!) clothing shops around every lil' corner, make-up displays along the walkways, cute guys all around to serve us & treat us like princesses, femininity presentations, spa treatments & manicures, femme role-play type amusements, lovely scented flowers as far as the eye can see, carnival games to win shoes, purses, etc., & jewelry door-prizes every five minutes!! Oh yeah... and one lucky girl gets chosen at random to be "Princess of the Day"- with a fairy-tale gown & hand-maidens to pamper her in every way! Hee, hee.

I know this is not as realistic as you probably had intended, but it's the first thing that came to mind & it does sound like fun doesn't it? A girl can dream can't she?

Hugz,

Veronica

[Guest rebecka43]

what would make me happy is to have a job were I could wake up every day and get ready as a lady put on that make up do the hair, put an a really nice outfit and some heels then get in the car and drive to work good luck with your love one Sandy I will keep you in my prayers

[Guest Sandy]

Hi Rebecka....I hope your dream comes true.

[Guest Sophie Jean]

Something really simple--having my wife smile at me as I dived into our pool in my turquoise bikini.

[gennee]

Hi, Sandy. I'm in a similar situation, also. My wife knows that I dress but she has never seen me totally dressed. She is partially accepting of my dressing. She even bought me nail polish on a couple of occasions. One dream I have is for her to buy me a dress. That would really rock my world.

We have been married for 27 years. I'm thankful that she is partially accepting (it's better than nothing). She admits that it's a part of me.

Gennee

[Guest joanne43]

Hi. Sandy we seem to have traveled down the same road and have our dream couls come true. I,ve been married for 35 years and have been dressing more in the past 12 years.

Interestingly my wifes only view of me dressed was when she was invited to a friends birthday party.

One of my earlier dreams did come true on that day, so yes, dreams can be fulfilled. It was such a wonderful experience for me to dress as a female maid, comletely made up and my wife dressed in an Elizabeathen dress.

I don't know how what she thought when I came out of the bathroom with make-up on and wearing high heels.

Since then I've longed to tell her about Joanne but although she's a councellor, I just can't take the chance that she could not accept my dressing.

So my dream is for the day that we could both live with the other woman in our marriage.

Love Joanne

[Guest Sandy]

It is so good to read all your replys. I hope everyone that reads this thread would leave their biggest crossdressing dream here. That way we can live through each others dreams and see that we all have many things in common.......Sandy

[Guest Sarah-hime]

A simple one here - to not be so afraid of crossdressing and to be more comfortable/happy with myself. Just that at the moment, i don't seem to have much motivation to dress what with school and the university process in the way.

[Guest Kimberley Jackson]

hope your dreams come true all the best kimberley xx

[Guest Georgia]

I am happily confused......ALL your experiences are MY experiences, adrenaline and frustration, you take me back to my first years of my feeling me a woman.

[Guest alexiaannalise]

i would have to agree with veronica i would love to have a that park and i would love for my gf to be alil more accepting of me and help me find clothes also another dream is dressing outside of my house but that one is hard cuz i have anxiety and panic attacks real bad sometimes

love ya

Alexia Annalise

[Guest Faye]

My greatest wish is to have a little understanding from my wife who has a total repugnance of crossdressing. I would also like her to see that I put in as much effort as I can to look my best.

Faye

[Guest Eve Caillard]

A lovely dream, Sandy and I wish you all the best.

My wife knows I cross-dress. She tolerates it, but that is all. Last night, for the very first time in front of her, I wore my favourite satin pyjama and camisole to bed as a risky "let's see how she takes it". I'm afraid it did not go down too well. She looked at me and said "it's not right." But she still tolerates. And we had a long chat about things after.

What would make me happy? What I said to her this very morning was: I'd love to go shopping with you for clothes for me. I'd love for you to ask me to dress for you, to show you how I am and how happy I can be. Those are my dreams and they are very similar to yours. But she is finding it tough. However, she tolerates, and we share jokes about it and we talk. So I cling to the hope that one day she will understand.

Sandy - I wish you all the best in your dreams! I think they can become reality - it just may take time and patience.

All the best,

Eve

[Guest miss_led]

A lovely dream, Sandy and I wish you all the best.

My wife knows I cross-dress. She tolerates it, but that is all. Last night, for the very first time in front of her, I wore my favourite satin pyjama and camisole to bed as a risky "let's see how she takes it". I'm afraid it did not go down too well. She looked at me and said "it's not right." But she still tolerates. And we had a long chat about things after.

What would make me happy? What I said to her this very morning was: I'd love to go shopping with you for clothes for me. I'd love for you to ask me to dress for you, to show you how I am and how happy I can be. Those are my dreams and they are very similar to yours. But she is finding it tough. However, she tolerates, and we share jokes about it and we talk. So I cling to the hope that one day she will understand.

Sandy - I wish you all the best in your dreams! I think they can become reality - it just may take time and patience.

All the best,

Eve

wife just thought I was wearing panties, thinks it's outta' my system, afraid that will never happen,also increased my lingerie wardrobe to include recently bra's stockings ...now looking for some 4" heels let's hope all of our dreams come true

[Guest Georgia]

Yes,a simple dream.

Late in the night I tiptoe into my quiet,dark bedroom: I am floating in the fragrance of my beloved Lady while reaching our bed.

She touches lightly my shoulder in a whisper -Is it my nightgown Georgia? You like wearing it? It's yours.....have a good night.....

[Guest PauletteX]

I have never had my wife shop for me. She knows I cross-dress, but is in a state of denial, like she overlooks it as if it is a character flaw. I can wear langerie to bed and she doesn't have any problems, but I need to be careful about what I wear when she is home during the day! What I have done is shop for her! I want to buy her an outfit for her birthday, but I want her to come along and try on different clothes. I get to wander through the woman's clothing, picking out wonderful fabrics and styles, she get to try them on until happy, and I go home buzzed! It is a lot of fun because you can look at a whole lot of possibilies, without suspicion, and with total approval of your SO.

PauletteX