Switching from fem man to butch woman regularly

[Guest praisedbeherhooves]

So I definitely ID outside the gender binary. I think I'd be most comfortable with my gender presentation if I switched between presenting as a feminine man and a butch woman. And I'd want to be very "convincing" in both roles. I am female-assigned-at-birth and have not had any surgeries or hormones. I do have a very androgynous appearance, though my voice is a huge issue. I want to have long hair to some extent, because I love long hair, which obviously makes both roles a bit more difficult. I do seem to look more masculine (judging by playing with a wig) with shoulder length hair than with short hair, so that helps. I am strongly considering chest surgery, but want to try losing a lot of fat and gaining muscle first...

[Guest Alder]

Well I have to wish you luck on your endeavors to create both looks. I've learned it's more to do with clothing than anything, at least for myself, as when I'm dressed more casual I look much more butch female than when dressed "normal"(for myself) in which I can pass as a fem male(which is what I wish I did all the time.)

I also wish you luck on the body work! I'm currently trying to get fit and trim before going the step of surgery as well so I know how hard it can be, and as my voice is also a strong clue as my birth sex I'm taking hormones in order to lower it(though I may remain on them, I like the balance they've given me internally).

Anyway! Since I don't think I've seen you post previously, welcome aboard!

[Guest Juniper Blue]

Hey Hooves,

I think that you can probably find a way to live comfortably in this manner. And regarding possibly surgery, as someone who has had a double mastectomy ... I can say that for me, it was very freeing ... a very good thing. My dysphoria was pretty high regarding my breasts ( I had very cystic breasts as well, which added to the pain.) Now, I am very comfortable in my body and I can easily move across the gender spectrum.

Best Wishes,

JB

[Guest Micha]

Welcome back Praisedbe!

Longer hair doesn't necessarily mean feminine. Work the attitude and wardrobe, y'know, the presentation, and you'll make it yours.

[Guest Alexx21]

I have gone from being female to male and back to female again , i wear dresses one day and trousers the next day my hair is shaven some times i wear make up and some times i dont ....yet to my self i just seem like a butch female most of the time and not male at all

i cant change the type of clothes i wear because i have issues with my weight and my back is an usual curve to it ( i know that backs normally have a curve but mine is deeper and my butt is huge ) so finding clothes to fit me is an issue if i know someone who could make clothes for me i would happily get them to make it for me but i dont and at the moment i cant afford to go to a tailor .

At the moment i wear joggy bottoms and hoodies most of the time some times i wear trousers with a dress but i never ever show my legs off

the trousers that i do wear under my dresses are women's that are stretchy at the waste so i can fit into them ok

If i had the money i would get myself some nice mens jeans and tops and wear what ever i like to wear but as money is an issues

i cant afford to do that right now .