Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Hackers and Computer Viruses Don't Care that I'm Androgyne


Guest Juniper Blue

Recommended Posts

Guest Juniper Blue

My computer is gonna' crash any day now .. so, if I am not around for a while don't worry. Captain Andro is probably at the computer repair place pulling out his credit card, scratching his head and wondering if the repair people will be able see all of his Laura's Playground posts and on-line shopping at REI ... oh well. ( Probably not .. but some person in Russia, living in a cramped apartment might have and They probably thought "BORING!" )

Hugs,

JB

Link to comment

Aye, aye, captain!

Captain Andro needs an Android? Not really- just liked the word play...

I hope you get the PC refreshed and back on line quickly and inexpensively!

Love, Megan

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Clear your browser cache (if not already), malwarebytes scanner is effective and free if you have not tried that already.

No they don't care about people, they only want $$.

Good luck

C -

Link to comment
Guest Annabelle Anders

I'd like to imagine that the person sitting in Russia hacking your stuff, tries to figure out what the hell you're talking about, and learns something about themselves in the process! Like a little circle of life.

Also, I love Android! I named my phone "My little Andro"

:)

Link to comment
Guest Juniper Blue

Thanks Megan and Cynthia!

Good thing that they only care about MONEY cause when they look into my BANK account they will say "So Little?? and perhaps a benevolent hacker may be inclined make a DEPOSIT!!"

Anyway .. I know that many of you work with computers ... any thoughts on cyber-security? Just how safe are we here on LP?? What can we do to make ourselves safer on-line??

Tell us all so that we can all become like one of those really paranoid people who brings their own silverware to restaurants!!

I am not too worried .. I do take some precautions like using a special (low limit) credit card on-line and I have an Identity Theft Protection service that will alert me AFTER I have been robbed but what else can we do to be safe on-line?? And what is "SAFE" anyway??

I have to go .. "THEY" are watching.

Hugs,

Juniper

Link to comment
Guest agfrommd

Anyway .. I know that many of you work with computers ... any thoughts on cyber-security? Just how safe are we here on LP?? What can we do to make ourselves safer on-line??

I'm a computer science teacher and a former software engineering. That being said, I'm not any kind of expert. Here is my list of dos and don'ts for what they're worth:

* DO: Always back up everything important to you on a flashdrive or portable hard drive. Your computer *will* crash. You don't want it to take data with you.

* DO: Go with an anti-virus program with daily updates. I'm a notorious cheapskate but that's one thing I want to pay for.

* DON'T: Download software unless you are 100% sure it's legit. I always google before I download. It's saved my bacon more than once.

* DON'T: Ever log in anywhere using a public WIFI. They are not secure, and anyone could be listening to our password.

* DO: Make sure you know your neighbors well, or anyone who could be within range of your home WIFI. Home systems are not secure and easy to eavesdrop on within range.

* DON'T: Use the same password for sensitive data (like email, bank account, etc.) as you do for every other random website (yes even Laura's Playground). I use two, one for my sensitive data and one for all the other random ones. (I learned this the hard way. Zappo's gave my yahoo password to hackers and my email account was hacked a couple days later).

* DON'T: Ever send a password, SS# or any other personal information via email. I don't ever store passwords anywhere in cyberspace.

* DON'T: Post on places like Laura's or other places with personally identifiable information (I actually think that's a rule for this site.

* DON'T: Keep personal information in emails. If someone sends you an email with your address/phone/ss# in it, delete it. If you want to save a copy, save it on your computer, not on the email server.

* DON'T: Keep personal information on your smartphone. They're too easy to lose.

Probably a lot of other things I'm forgetting.

Link to comment
Guest Robin Winter

If you want to keep your private stuff private, use Firefox with the private browsing feature turned on, or, as I prefer, just have it clear everything whenever firefox closes. That way it will retain all your cookies and passwords etc for as long as you have firefox open, to save you having to retype everything, but when you close the browser it all goes kaput. No worries about any repair people seeing your history.

Also, of course, a good virus scanner and a hardware firewall (a good router will do). Also good to periodically run programs that take out the trash, as it were, like CCleaner, malwarebytes, Spybot S&D, etc.

Personally, I run Avira antivirus (the free version) with daily scans, CCleaner semi-regularly, and malwarebytes and Spybot only if I have reason to believe they are needed. I have a firewall via my router, but keep the windows firewall on as well.

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   2 Members, 0 Anonymous, 108 Guests (See full list)

    • Kait
    • Mirrabooka
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      769.5k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,069
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Ali_Genderlfuid
    Newest Member
    Ali_Genderlfuid
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Caridad
      Caridad
    2. Certbunnie
      Certbunnie
      (25 years old)
    3. EstherElle
      EstherElle
      (43 years old)
    4. Juliet
      Juliet
      (43 years old)
    5. MelissaAndProudOfIt
      MelissaAndProudOfIt
      (59 years old)
  • Posts

    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Some anxiety is building up inside.
    • Heather Shay
      Suppressing your emotions because you’re afraid of them can be bad for your physical and mental health. Here’s what to do instead. When a toddler feels a “big” emotion, like anger or sadness, they tend to have a big tantrum on the floor. And these tantrums can be a lot to observe, full of thrashing, screaming, and tears. But a child reacts like this because the emotion they’re feeling is uncomfortable, maybe even painful.   Of course, as adults, we feel emotions too, and those feelings can be just as overwhelming, uncomfortable, or even painful as they were when we were children, even if we don’t let ourselves react in such a big way. But, sometimes, in our attempts to not give in to our emotions, we go too far: we run from them or suppress them — even if that harms us in the long run. Although there are many reasons we might suppress our emotions, one of them is that we are afraid of our emotions. Fear of emotions is called “animotophobia. It is not an official term in the DSM-5-TR. Still, fearing your emotions can have a significant impact on your well-being.      
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Been a while.... Do you sing or play an instrument?   I sing, write songs, play guitar, bass, harp. It is my sanctuary.
    • Willow
      Good morning   Ok I didn’t get to go home yesterday as expected.  In fact expect for a one hour break plus travel time I worked an 11 hour day.  another store needed me so I left my store half way through my day went home for an hour break then went to another store until 6   this morning I told Alexa to turn off my alarm but dozed another 30 minutes.   well at least today is a short day.     hugs   Willow
    • Heather Shay
      @KaitSo glad you are here. It's never too late to talk to your doctor. bI was 68 before I stopped lying to myself and talked to my doctor. He or she might be able to help. It may be easier to find an endocrinologist you specializes or a health care group who specializes. You might also seek out a therapist who specializes to help with HRT resources. Psychology Today can help find therapists who specialize. Glad you are here. WELCOME.
    • April Marie
      Skort, t-shirt, bra feels so good.
    • April Marie
      Good morning, everyone!   Coffee is flowing so my brain is beginning to function.    We've been busy caring for aging family members and trying to get the house open now that the weather is getting warmer. I've been working on getting the pool open and cleaned. It's almost ready for salt and starting up the heater. We may be swimming by next week.   But, it's raining here today so I guess I'll be stuck working inside.   Have a wonderful and safe, day!!
    • April Marie
      I had that same outcome from my first colonoscopy years ago. It just triggered more frequent colonoscopies for a period of time. Hopefully, that will be the same plan for you.
    • Birdie
      Biopsies came back mostly clear except one, one polyp came back with abnormal cell growth (pre-cancerous). It was completely removed during the colonoscopy so I don't know yet if further action needs to be taken. 
    • Kait
      Hey-o. My name's Kait. I haven't decided what to do about my last name yet. (Mononyms sound cool, but they're very problematic unfortunately).   I guess pronouns are important. They/them or it/its (strong preference for 'it/its').    Im not someone who's been active in the community for a long time, but I've known I was trans almost my whole life. It's just that financial, medical, and psychiatric struggles have kept it from the forefront of my priorities for 10 years or so. So basically during that entire time, I've been living as an AMAB, masculine-presenting person named kait. Which is not ideal, but I've been able to deal with it by dissociating from my body and viewing it as an appendage rather than as a 'self'.    Mostly I'm on here because I finally feel well enough mentally and physically to think about beginning HRT. Problem is, I really don't know where to start out what to do. I have an endocrinologist I see for an unrelated health issue, but honestly I don't have a very strong relationship with him. Is it best to start with my existing doctor? Or should I find an endocrinologist that specialises in this sub-field? What's the best available tech? Is 29 too late to be taken seriously about this by my doctor? I have no idea about these questions and so much more and I need help.   Side from trans stuff though, I'm the boringest person you'll probably ever know. I have a pretty rich inner life and a wonderful partner, but really all I do is work, sleep, and occasionally build tiny models.     
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      I agree that porn is a really bad thing.  Bad in general, but probably gives a misleading view of trans folks.  If you don't see trans folks out in the wild, but you see plenty of them online, that is going to give the impression that it is primarily sex-driven, and that trans folks are interested in sex with just about everybody all the time.  Similar to what people often assume about being bisexual.    I'm androgynous, so sometimes people look at me this way.  Especially if my husband and I are together (if they don't assume I'm his kid) people get that "judgy" look on their faces.  You can sort of read their minds.  I even heard on lady say something like, "Oh, that's just so wrong" when we came out of a shower at a truck stop.  I mean, I like sex and we have a great connection in that way, but its not "THE REASON" for our relationship. 
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...