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Guest Evan_J

Do you truthfully want other genetalia  

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  1. 1. Given the opportunity to have optimally functional genetalia would you honestly switch? NO OTHER PART OF YOUR TRANSITION WOULD BE AFFECTED BY THIS ANSWER. Please do not be influenced by the ideas or expectations of others.

    • I secretly actually like sex with the genetalia I currently have, but feel thats not an acceptable answer.
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    • Although I might not want to have sex with it, I would feel odd without the genitalia I have.
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    • I'm not sure, do I have to pick?
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    • Where do I get in line for this?
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IF I could promise you a perfect surgery, one in which all facets of a new genetalia would DEFINATELY work would you take it?

Be careful, think long, it would be irreversable.

Don't be pressured or influenced by what you think the "correct" or "acceptable" answer is for a transsexual, an FtM, a MtF or anything else. What I'm asking is are you sure you would be happy without your current genetalia. And before you answer, also consider that it has occured that a completely transsexual individual has had SRS before and though they did not regret anything about transitioning otherwise, they wished they had the original genetalia. There is no shame in that.

What would you want?

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I have always thought of myself as female and I want very much to become female - not for the sake of having sex as a female, but to be accepted as female. Surgery would not seem to be important under these conditions, but for me to accept myself as totally female - I would have to be able to ignore my genitalia when I shower or have to tuck - in other words all of the time! I just want to become the woman that I have always known that I was. I would always feel like I was 'pretending to be a woman' like I 'pretended to be a mlae' for so long. In my mind it is important - to others it might not even be an option, but that is what makes this group so interesting.

I had thought about this for a long time - it's one of the questions that my therapist had asked me to think about.

Where is this line forming, Evan?

Sally

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well I thought long and hard about it...

or at least, being a teenager I've been thinking about probably nothing other than sex for the last seven or so years. :P One major issue I always had was I didn't think I'd ever be able to have sex with anyone because of my genetalia being what it is. Not to mention like, live with going to the bathroom for the rest of my life. And this is without fully realizing that I was trans. So I'm going to have to say I would not miss it. Even without any retribution I wouldn't miss it. In exchange for a full functionality is like a dream come true.

And one of my life goals is to somehow further genital growth/surgeries, so you never know... I might just figure this one out :D (although don't hold your breath for it to be soon :P)

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IF I could promise you a perfect surgery, one in which all facets of a new genetalia would DEFINATELY work would you take it?

Be careful, think long, it would be irreversable.

Don't be pressured or influenced by what you think the "correct" or "acceptable" answer is for a transsexual, an FtM, a MtF or anything else. What I'm asking is are you sure you would be happy without your current genetalia. And before you answer, also consider that it has occured that a completely transsexual individual has had SRS before and though they did not regret anything about transitioning otherwise, they wished they had the original genetalia. There is no shame in that.

What would you want?

I n a shinny second.

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Guest Donna Jean

Well, at this point it apears that I'm at the back of the line, but, I am in line... ;)

All things considered...there is no other way for me...get the scalpel warmed up, put on some Mozart and get to work!

Ahhhh better now...

Donna Jean

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Well, at this point it apears that I'm at the back of the line, but, I am in line... ;)

All things considered...there is no other way for me...get the scalpel warmed up, put on some Mozart and get to work!

Ahhhh better now...

Donna Jean

For the sake of the surgery let's avoid the first movement of Symphony No. 40 - a little quicker than I feel comfortable for someone with a sharp instrument in their hand! :D

It isn't important where you are in line just be in the line. And no shoving from all of you behind me! :lol:

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

Evan_J

Can I push to the front? I wanna get there before I die! Well, some of you mature madames can go ahead of me I guess. :lol:

Did you mean by fully fuctioning, I could get pregnant? Oh... I think I just fainted. :blink:

[Evan - you don't appreciate that I know - but I am sure you understand]

Okay - this is a serious topic. I have always felt I could lose what came with the original, no problem. Even if there was no SRS replacement, I could lose the that part of me w/o regrets. But to gain the other - to match that I already am in my mind, yes I would do so, permanently, irreversably, no regrets.

I guess that makes me what I am. :huh:

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I could get pregnant? Oh... I think I just fainted. :blink:

[Evan - you don't appreciate that I know - but I am sure you understand]

:blink: If the test was positive, it wasn't me, I promise lol I'm a good boy, and I always wear one :P

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Guest Elizabeth K

And respect me in the morning? Checks in the mail? You won't - well nevemind.

Funny you should mention it - I just had testing yesterday morning - but you are safe - bloodwork

Gee - wear one??? Us southern girls don't know what you mean... :lol:

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Guest CharliTo

mmm, honestly, the times i had w/ my ex girlfriend was great while, well, I had this thing.

but yeah, I can do w/o it :3

but the main reason why I couldn't do it yet is $ and the timng. T_T

If there is a way to do it quick and free....and reliable, then heck yeah, sign me up plz :3

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Guest Donna Jean

Evan said:

If the test was positive, it wasn't me, I promise lol I'm a good boy, and I always wear one

Liz said:

Funny you should mention it - I just had testing yesterday morning - but you are safe - bloodwork

Gee - wear one??? Us southern girls don't know what you mean

??? HEY what are you guys talkin' about? Wear one what? Are you talking in code or something? No fair..

I don't get it...is somethin' going on???? What positive test???? What does southern have to do with anything??? Whats so funny???????

Geesh!!!

Nobody tells me nuthin'!

Donna Jean

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Evan said:

Liz said:

??? HEY what are you guys talkin' about? Wear one what? Are you talking in code or something? No fair..

I don't get it...is somethin' going on???? What positive test???? What does southern have to do with anything??? Whats so funny???????

Geesh!!!

Nobody tells me nuthin'!

Donna Jean

Donna Jean,

If you need some help on understanding any of this, just contact 'Momma Sally' and we'll have 'That Talk".

Sally

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And respect me in the morning? Checks in the mail? You won't - well nevemind.
Shhhh, I'm supposed to be a good boy, which would mean I dunno what comes at the end of that statement lol. Um, no puns intended lol.
Funny you should mention it - I just had testing yesterday morning - but you are safe - bloodwork

Gee - wear one??? Us southern girls don't know what you mean... :lol:

Right, because you're a good girl. Look at us, both good lol.

??? HEY what are you guys talkin' about? Wear one what? Are you talking in code or something? No fair..

I don't get it...is somethin' going on???? What positive test???? What does southern have to do with anything??? Whats so funny???????

Geesh!!!

Nobody tells me nuthin'!

Donna Jean

and that is because I would never taint your ears or want to say anything to cause your angel avatar to lose any of its feathers.

[whew, crisis averted]

<--goes back to trying to look like Mr. Rated G (unless of course Sally has told on me :P )

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Guest Jackson

I know I'm not a good boy. I'm a real bad boy. So if I could, I would do it in a New York minute. Not that I know how long a NY minute is, but I've been told that it can only be measured in nanoseconds.

I dream about having the optimum equipment. I'd sell my soul if it would help. But I can't so I won't.

I'm just good at using the English language in inventive ways to say what I want to say without sounding too bad.

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Guest My_Genesis
:blink: If the test was positive, it wasn't me, I promise lol I'm a good boy, and I always wear one :P

I hope I'll be able to say that one day and mean it :blink:

well I thought long and hard about it...

or at least, being a teenager I've been thinking about probably nothing other than sex for the last seven or so years. tongue.gif One major issue I always had was I didn't think I'd ever be able to have sex with anyone because of my genetalia being what it is. Not to mention like, live with going to the bathroom for the rest of my life. And this is without fully realizing that I was trans. So I'm going to have to say I would not miss it. Even without any retribution I wouldn't miss it. In exchange for a full functionality is like a dream come true.

And one of my life goals is to somehow further genital growth/surgeries, so you never know... I might just figure this one out biggrin.gif (although don't hold your breath for it to be soon :P

Well I hadn't had this all figured out for the last 7 years so I kinda buried any sexual thought in the back of my head, it made me so uncomfortable. i regret doing that, because once I figured it all out...now all I think about is sex. Which sucks when you can't do anything about it :rolleyes: Because I also have that major issue you mentioned and I don't think I'll ever be able to overcome it.

And yeah, that's one of my "life goals" as well although hopefully that doesn't imply that it will take a lifetime to achieve.

It would also be nice not to be the 40-year-old virgin so I get a VIP pass to the front of the line :lol:

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It would also be nice not to be the 40-year-old virgin so I get a VIP pass to the front of the line :lol:

Virgin you say? Hmmm. We'll have to have one of the girls sniff you down and see if that's true lol. A "not southern" girl of course. And this thread threatens to get so far off topic if I comment on anything else I won't but for the record I'm noting who's not habitually wearin stuff and that Jackson is good at rewording to stay outta trouble. -Good man Jackson.

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Well, with all do respects to the '40 year old virgin', that still leaves me with the first spot in line. :D

I'm a very good Southern girl! :rolleyes:

Who knew that some day it would actually pay off - assuming that we ever get that whole magic thing going. :lol:

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest My_Genesis
Virgin you say? Hmmm. We'll have to have one of the girls sniff you down and see if that's true lol. A "not southern" girl of course.

do girls really know that much about you? :huh:

lol

Why not southern? I wouldn't mind that :lol:

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Guest Jackson
that Jackson is good at rewording to stay outta trouble. -Good man Jackson.

Who knew that diplomacy would be this important in life? Seems that all that aspiring writing I've done in my life, along with killing a few forests (which I do feel guilty about) has actually paid off in life. Or maybe it was just all the rhetoric classes I took. I should have been a politician. Or a lawyer.

There is nothing wrong with a good Southern girl or woman.

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do girls really know that much about you? :huh:

lol

Why not southern? I wouldn't mind that :lol:

You would be amazed what girls know :blink: And while you might not mind a southern girl its hard to find one that'll do it.....at least one that'll do it and admit it lol

And Jackson, my man, I think you should be a politician...so I can be one with ya....and keep a secret "bad boy vacation spot" next door to yours in Bora Bora that we can take turns writing one anothers denial speeches about lol.

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