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Begining My New Life (as I Can)


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Guest Sofiadragon

I had made my new years resolution that I am going to live in all of my off time as a woman since my boss isn't LGBT friendly in any manner of the word :angry: (he is 63 yo & has no toleration for it in any manner of speaking) so untill my business takes off to where I can work on my own w/out being employed by someone else I am going to just be living as a woman in my off time. Just let me know if anyone on here would like to see how I look in both modes, & I will see what I can do.

But I would like to get everyones feedback on this.

Also I took my son to see santa last sunday & I thought that I would show him off, he is 21 months old :D Here he is.

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First, he is soooo Cute! You must be very proud!

As far as you living as a woman all that you can...you go girl!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

:) Go for it - I started HRT and full time (home only) at the same time as a commitment to myself. It's really gonna reveal things about yourself you don' really know right now. Also, you will find grooming and taking care of a woman's body is time-consuming if you do it right - whew.. I became very aware, very quickly, to stay age appropriate, to watch the weather, and to keep ahead of the washing and cleaning.

You can't run around in heels, when cleaning the house, even if you are June Cleaver in your mind. I stay in sweats and jeans a majority of the time. :P

It's really satisfying, though, to finally meld mind and body to a major degree. :D

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:) Go for it - I started HRT and full time (home only) at the same time as a commitment to myself. It's really gonna reveal things about yourself you don' really know right now. Also, you will find grooming and taking care of a woman's body is time-consuming if you do it right - whew.. I became very aware, very quickly, to stay age appropriate, to watch the weather, and to keep ahead of the washing and cleaning.

You can't run around in heels, when cleaning the house, even if you are June Cleaver in your mind. I stay in sweats and jeans a majority of the time. :P

It's really satisfying, though, to finally meld mind and body to a major degree. :D

When I am around the house I am ususally in a pair of womans yoga shorts anyway w/ a normal T-shirt, so I know that things like that aren't gonna change @ all. My attire isn't going to change all that much I already shave my legs & almost everything else (basically the only thing that I don't shave are my eyebrows & my hair lol) but what I am really meaning when it comes to my life @ home & when I am not @ work is basically that I will be wearing my breast forms & what not that make me apear more like a woman when I am not @ work so I can start to get used to the life that I will be taking on 100% 'cause you know we are all used to living as a male :P but that is what I am mainly talking about I know that once the weather starts to warm up out here I am most deffinetly going to have to break out of my shell 'cause in that way I am basically forcing myself to break out of my shell & start to live the way that I want to. The last time that I went out alone was to my last transfamily meeting & I was so nervous 'cause I went out alone as the real me & there have been alot of hate crimes twoards transgender & homosexual people out here in cleveland lately so I was really nervous but I was happy that nothing happened (I did have a can of mace ready to use @ a moments notice though.

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