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Hello everyone my name is alexiscd and this is my first time here. At this point in my life I can truely say i am happy. About two weeks ago my wife found out my crossdressing secret she was so mad at first and i just wanted to fall of the face of the earth. I went to work that day not able to do anything. I wouldn't look anyone in the eye I was so ashmed. Later that night I returned home and we talked after she had time to calm down. To my surprise crossdressing was not a big deal to her at all. I hurt her more by lying all these years than anything else. These lies took a big part of me away. I became an emotionless depressed person. My wife joined this site first in effort to go out of her way and be supportive(god bless her) Know two weeks later I am happy, I feel better about myself and my life I evan had the time of my life last night. My wife wanting to take the next step in this journey picked out some of my clothes brushed my wig and even did my make-up for me. It was the first time i looked in the mirror and saw a Pretty me because i sucked trying to do make-up. After all that we went on with the night as usual. She did not judge or make me feel uncomfortable. I will never forget that night. Thank you for letting me join and i hope to make many friends along the way. AlexisCD

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Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. It's wonderful when you have a spouse who is accepting.

Gennee

:D

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Hello Alexis,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. We've already met your spouse and I must say that she is such a wonderful person for being so supportive of you. She is a gem of priceless value. Don't be afraid to ask questions. That's why we're here. To give answers and support.

MaryEllen :)

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Yes we have known about you Alexis forget the cd part of your name that's not how we need to know you. Alexis is perefect. Yes we have talked to your wife quiet a few times. I guess she opened the door for you and S.O.'s like her are a true blessing . Give your self a little wink in the mirror from all of us and you know we will be with you on your long wonderful journey.........................Mia.

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Guest Evan_J

Aloha!

Welcome to the playground. Gotta tell you, you're battin a thousand here already havin been greeted by Mary Ellen, Gennee, and Mia. Nice, nice, and nice- every one of em but I'm sure your wife's already filled you in.

Hope to see you around

Evan

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Hi Alexis,

you must have come in while I was out!

Welcome to the playground, make yourself at home.

Your wife is a jewel of great value, treasure her always!

She may have mentioned that while we are here for support and advice, we like the family feel here. Sometimes humor and a bit of silliness can help when troubled, so we have the refreshment cart - loaded with hot coco and cookies and mini marshmallows - take as much as you like - virtual food has no calories and no fat! :D

I didn't want you to feel slighted in case you had heard about the fabulous refreshments here! :lol:

Usually the first post is a bit tenative and a little down- you were so up, and for good reason, that no one offered you any comfort food . :(

Well, I've taken care of that now, have a seat in a comfy chair near the fire and please relax and make yourself at home. :D

Glad to have another happy face in the family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

Alexis - hey! You finally showed up. We have been waiting for ya!

Hey - you lucky devil - a good wife ye have it seems.

Welcome-Welcome-Welcome.

Plenty of CD types here - and they wanna make you feel the best about yourself as possible. Lotta other good people here - lotsa diversity. So look around -ask questions and post replies. We value your opinion - and now you are in the position of feeling good - we want you to share all that as well... Always need a happy face... and not that :) one - YOURS!

Lizzy

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