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i had a husband in a past life, found him again in this life, he died on feb. 24th, 2013. in a car wreck, the moment he died i saw him standing in my living room smiling at me, i'm new to the pagan/wiccan community and i am still learning, he still appears next to me every day. possible he still loves me and will always be around to protect me? such funny memories of the two of us.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. i lost a son of 13 15 years ago and in many ways he is still with me. The pain has lessened but the caring never goes away. Please don't let it get you too down. We learn to give and get love from others all through our lives. please be open to that as well as the memories of the past. Not to regret them and try to push them away, but don't live there either. I'm glad you are here at Laura's.

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Pleas keep us in your loop we can sometimes help each other as we share so much.

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Charlie

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Guest Jaques

Wulf i too am sorry for your loss, i feel those we love are always with us when they shuffle off this mortal coil - its comforting to know this and that also because of our spiritual connection to them, sometimes called "soul mates" - and karma, they will be with us in other lives, in other guises, as they have in the past.

Charlie, being a parent, i cant begin to understand how it might feel to lose a child, i can only imagine, each time i read or see on TV someone who's had a child taken from them in one way or another, my heart goes out to them. Theres a place about a mile from my house where a teenage boy was knocked down and killed on a road, there are always flowers, this has been years now and every time i pass, usually once a week at least, I look for the flowers, I dont know these people, but I think about that mother and father and how they must be hurting.

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There is a great saying: "pain is inevitable, suffering is optional." One must keep moving.

Hugs,

Charlie

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Guest Angel Heart

That is awful :( I'm so sorry your husband died. But i'm glad he is still with you :) that is an amazing thing

I am very spiritual, and I find spiritual things very intriguing, definitely. it is more than likely he will stay and protect you, always by your side. I know my house ghost, Ted, comes to me in my times of need. he is very sweet. Keep me updated, if you would like, on that because I am very curious.

Hugs to you :) I hope you start feeling better.

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Guest Gypsyfeenix

My heart breaks for your loss wulf...I cannot imagine how difficult it is.

I believe that those who walk the path before us stay with us in some form to watch over us, and I believe that if you saw him, then you saw him.

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