Becoming A girl WITHOUT surgery or hormone therapy.

[Guest Womanly Girl]

Hey girls..

I'm a cross dresser ever since the age of 3 who would much like to live in the world as a girl although that's something I don't consider at the moment because of all the problem that are related to hormone therapy and sex-changing surgeries. My question to you is, is it possible to live as a girl out there without having to go through any surgeries or hormone therapy or anything else that causes so much trouble? Perhaps breast implants would be inevitable but other than that...I mean I have a pretty round and feminine face already so.... I think It might be possible.

The best thing 'bout that is the possibility of complete reverting it in case I don't enjoy it..cause as I said trying to become a girl involves a bunch of problems like for example, being excluded from society!

Do share your thoughts women!!!

[Drea]

I know someone who has without hormones or surgery so it certainly can be done.

[Guest Always Good]

Okay, I get how you could do that in your job and shopping and all of that but how will you handle the dating aspect? It might just be me but I feel like doing anything "physical" in this body is kind of gross.

[Guest BurningBrilliance]

There are people who are naturally androgynous, there's a few male models who identify as male but sometimes model as female, I'm not sure of their names but you can find them on google. They are lucky in my opinion though I identify as a woman, their genetics work in their favor, if they ever wanted to transition they'd be super gorgeous.

I think that's what it comes down to, genetics if you don't want hormones or surgery. Since my genetics are bad I'll stay on HRT and wait for surgery.

[Guest LaurenJ]

there's a few male models who identify as male but sometimes model as female, I'm not sure of their names but you can find them on google.

Google Image search: Andrej Pejic <3

He's the only guy I'd ever go for hehe.

He's an androgynous model that models male and female clothes, but honestly looks much much better as a female heh.

I read an interview by him and he said he's not on any hormones and isn't transgender, but is very supportive of the LGBT and transgender models.

Additionally, I was quite intrigued to learn that he's straight, and I believe he currently has a long-term girlfriend, despite the fact that guys probably hit on HIM more than his gf when they're out together haha.

Some people have all the luck with genetics, eh?

~Ren

[Charlize]

He is very pretty when he wants to be. Reminds me of one of the elves in the Tolkien Movies. I will add that may of us live full time with neither surgery or HRT. I did for months early on as i waited to get on HRT. I'm unfortunately back there now because of my heart disease. If i can get back on i will but i'll be myself regardless. I may have surgery but that is in the future.

People have lived this way for years. We have always existed. HRT is fairly new as is surgery. I am glad to be myself in the world regardless of whether i'm happy with what is under the hood.

Hugs,

Charlie

[Guest NadineElaine]

If I can add without offending anyone, it confuses me when I hear or read something about "becoming a girl"...it doesn't work like that, and in my experiences with people looking for understanding of gid, that wording leaves them even more confused.

[Guest Kelly-087]

I don't know why you would want to turn down hormones unless you had a medical reason preventing them.

I don't mean that offensively or judgementally. But I feel amazingly different and comfortable with myself on HRT. And I honestly doubt I would be able to transition without them.

[Guest ~Brenda~]

There are many transwomen and men who pass extraordinarily well, but have decided that surgery is not for them. You will find that there are a plethora of options at your disposal. The important thing here is to simply find yourself and what works for you.

Don't worry hon.

Love.

Brenda

[Cyndee]

Hey girls..

The best thing 'bout that is the possibility of complete reverting it in case I don't enjoy it..cause as I said trying to become a girl involves a bunch of problems like for example, being excluded from society!

Be comfortable with yourself, that's what matters. Don't worry about others and your expressions. You don't need surgery or HRT to have a great time being a girl, be yourself, in the end that's all that matters.

As far as being excluded from society, I am not sure how it is in Brazil (I can only imagine, based on your comments). I feel more connected than ever with the world since dealing with my gender issues. Trying to be a guy like everyone wanted and expected only alienated me, and felt awkward, in short it was the wrong set of expectations for my mindset, it was way too restrictive (man prison). I have more friends and a much better social life now being true to myself. Where I live it's OK to be yourself, sweet freedom, set her free.

Hugs

Cynthia -

[Guest Dorothy Lynne]

Its all in the genes, some can but most can't without hormones.

[Drea]

Hormone's aren't magic.

There are lots of variables, but it is possible as I mentioned previously.

[Guest LizMarie]

Please consider Christen Bustani's blog, The Woman Within. To the best of my knowledge, the only thing Christen has done is facial electrolysis to get rid of facial hair. That's it. And if you are young enough, and if you facial hair is dark enough and your skin is light enough, you might get by with just laser.

You will, however, have to practice and perfect your feminine voice, and in addition to that, you need to learn the mannerisms, behaviors, etc., of natal woman. But it certainly can be done.