Setting goals

[Guest Wendae]

Each time I go out dressed I set a goal to do something different. The last goal has been to go to a resturant and have a meal. I've wimped out several times and today i really struggled to over come my misgivings. I was dreessed in a black maxi skirt, black peasant blouse, black hose and black pumps. Silver bracelet and 3 thin silver ankle bracelets. Not to forget my new wig(same as my last photo)Anyway Iwent to Cracker Barrel for lunch at 12:00. Very crowded but it was uneventful and very enjoyable. I still haven't been able to get my girl voice but it was not a problem that I noticed.Prior to linch I had shopped at Walmart and stopped into Barnes and Noble. It was a good day and I feel wonderful.

[Guest -guest-]

Wendae, I know the feeling. Sometimes we have to take baby steps, but we get there eventually because we must.

I wish you continued success!

[Carolyn Marie]

Congrats, Wendae! I'm so glad that you enjoyed your day. The way you approached it was the same way I did. Each time out I went a little further, and tried something different. Each success led to more success. I hope all your adventures go as well.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

[Guest Jamie_cd]

Congrats Wendae! Thats actually a neat way of going about doing things. I'm going to have to steal your idea hehe

[Guest Jaques]

Well done Wendae - it does take courage, i know from when i lst came out, i looked very feminine, i bought a pin stripe blue suit, wore a white shirt and red tie, slicked back my then thick hair with a KD land type "flick" at the front - and went walking up the High Street where I lived - I went into the local gay pub and though i didnt "fit" with lesbians, many of them said how good I looked and liked what they saw as the "old fashioned butch look" - being about 53 then, i think the general idea was that i was older and therefore, though "butch" was not the done thing anymore, i was OK and tollerated because of my age - so at least being an old git, i could do what i liked, lol - that reminds me of the poem "When Im an old lady I shall wear purple" etc. - though i dont think i shall be eating 2 lbs of sausages at once or running a stick along park railings - but yeh, Wendae, you keep it up girl, enjoy yourself, life's short and those sweet moments are worth having..........x

[Guest Wendae]

When you don't have a friend or loved one to go with you it is always scary. But the wonderful thing is as your comfidence increases so does the elation you feel. I've never taken drugs but the feeling of euphoria I get from being out and about as Wendae has got to be the ultimate high for me.God how I hate having to revert to my macho lie.

Thanks for all of the feed back boys and girls.

[Guest KatyDesire]

Hey, if you look critically there are a whole bunch of really weird looking genetic girls out there. Compared to them, we all probably look quite good. Whatever you do, do with confidence. If you believe in yourself, others will also.

Well done.