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Guest sashashay

Hi everyone,

I'm kinda new to crossdressing. About a year ago a friend had talked me into doing it as a joke for Halloween and I ended up really enjoying it. I've dressed up a few times here and there after that and she was always very supportive and alot of help. She ended up leaving for college and I just fell out of doing it.

Lately I've been wanting to dress again but I'm not really sure where to start, I guess I'm still really new to all this.

Thanks

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Welcome to Laura's dear. You might want to post in the introduction forum so more folks will get to know you. Plese feel free to read and post. Please feel no pressure to move in any direction but instead you may learn more about your own path.

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You are not alone, again welcome.

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Charlie

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Guest Sarah Faith

Hi Sasha! Welcome to Laura's Playground!

Well this is definitely a good place for both information and support we have a lot of really great members here!

We do ask that new members check out the Terms & Conditions at least once which you can find at the bottom right hand side of this page! Anyways look around the forums there is a lot of great info here and post anywhere that interests you. :) Looking forward to seeing more from you!

Sarah

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Lately I've been wanting to dress again but I'm not really sure where to start, I guess I'm still really new to all this.

Thanks

Hi Sashashay,

There is always under-dressing, it could start simply with a pair of panties, then add a bra or a cami, then perhaps some stockings, next thing ya know you are flying under the radar. Give yourself a pedi, worn under regular shoes, who cares, it's all about you....

If that does nothing for ya, then go for the full outfits, add a dress, gotta have nice shoes, get nice a do, add makeup and nails.

I love building outfits myself, there is an art to it, it's endless joy...

Hugs

Cindy -

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Guest sophia.gentry58

Hi Sasha! Lovely name and welcome to your new home where you're sure to find your needs being met with respect to crossdressing. Cynthia's suggestion sounds prudent, starting out under-dressing until you feel more comfortable and daring then work your way from there.

Sophia

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Guest Angel Heart

Welcome sasha :) thank you for the introduction. I am sure you will like it here.

I will second Sophia's approval of Cynthia's advice :)

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Welcome to LP Sashashay!

You already have some great suggestions.

There is a lot of information and a lot of friendly people here.

I wish you peace and success on your journey.

Huggs, :wub:

Joann

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Guest Eve Caillard

Hi Sasha

This is a great place - hugely supportive. Go for it and experiment. I kind of crashed back into cross dressing at the age of 53 and I've always felt a remarkable degree of support and friendliness here. I know I would be in a very different place without the support I've had from all at LP.

Eve

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Guest Roberta-Belinda

Hi Sasha. I think under-dressing is good advice. I started out at the age of twelve with just a pair of tights and under my school shorts. I progressed to skirts and then dresses and eventually shoes. Take your time hon.

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Guest Guest_

Hi Sasha: All excellent advice. Give yourself time, and learn from this wonderful site. I enjoy my feminine side so much, and love to dress when ever I can. I guess I could you the fraze for myself "Youve Come A Long Way Baby" since I joined the LP's. Enjoy who you are and live life to iys fullest. Hugs.

Amber L.

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Hi Shasha, you are not alone in finding your true self at Halloween! That was where I found me as well, of course it took a tragedy for me, so you lucked out there. Laura's is a wonderful place to learn and grow, you will find lots of good friends here. Enjoy and have fun experimenting.

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Guest AmyDeluca

A good way to start would also be to find a place like ross, gordmans and places like that(if u dont have any near u their clothing stores at cheap prices, they have alot of skirts, heels, dress, panties etc for really cheap). Find a store or online store that has some cheap items u like. try out around the house and go from their. find ur own comfort zone. u can do it :D. good luck!

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