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Hello ladies

Today i had a first in my journey. i attended my morning group per usual and i told them some of what my gt has been telling me. ANXIETY :o like u wouldnt believe i almost started crying from fright. But then i wore my bow for the rest of my group which had me scared beyond belief but by the end of the group everything was ok so i made it through a day with something feminine on other than my panties which makes me very happy :D everyone in my group is so supportive and it makes me happy one of the other girls is gonna give me my first purse which i am totally excited about :D and i bought makeup for myself today too ;) so im slowly able to do stuff more and more and thank you to everyone whose been a huge help since i started my journey All the ladies and gentlemen are awesome on this site huge hugs to everyone from me :wub:

*kisses*

Alexia Annalise

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YOU are doing serious emotional WORK, and you will feel the emotional work as much as you will ever feel physical work, but this is how we build strength for our journeys. Good deal on the makeup. You will get frustrated the first few times you try it, but in a few weeks you will laugh about it. We all have.

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Congrats on having an amazing day. When I think back to myself slowly doing stuff more and more, I can not help but to laugh lol. It was down right scary and took a very long time to be comfortable in simply shopping. I made it and can live a normal female life doing normal female things and I know there will be a future post from you to as you can look back on these little steps. Again, gratz!

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It is amazing how all those little but difficult steps make it possible for great happy strides. You are doing wonderfully. Don't get frustrated by the makeup. Take it slow and know that even cis women has a learning curve with makeup and looking around some never learn.

Hugs,

Charlie

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