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Guest Sashel Trace

Ok, yes, I know...that's a strange title. But what can I say, the post is strange too.

I was watching home improvement last night and there was a rather interesting discussion between the two main characters, Jill and Tim. It was an argument about proper respect towards women by men. Tim said that no mater how much she wanted it, she couldn't turn him into a girl...well it was possible but he would still have an Adams apple and really big hands.

Quite honestly I found it funny. But anyways...

So I got to thinking: we can make the Adams apple less noticeable with surgery (a concept which makes me twitch and very glad I actually don't have an Adams apple), so why not do the same for hands?

Really, the issue is that male hands are large overall while a woman's ---fingers--- are slender. Simple solution is to extend the fingers so that they are a bit longer, then our hands, while remaining large, also appear slender. I know that they have done such a thing to legs for people who are too short for a career that they really want, such as flight attendant, so why not do such for fingers?

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Guest Little Sara
Ok, yes, I know...that's a strange title. But what can I say, the post is strange too.

I was watching home improvement last night and there was a rather interesting discussion between the two main characters, Jill and Tim. It was an argument about proper respect towards women by men. Tim said that no mater how much she wanted it, she couldn't turn him into a girl...well it was possible but he would still have an Adams apple and really big hands.

Quite honestly I found it funny. But anyways...

So I got to thinking: we can make the Adams apple less noticeable with surgery (a concept which makes me twitch and very glad I actually don't have an Adams apple), so why not do the same for hands?

Really, the issue is that male hands are large overall while a woman's ---fingers--- are slender. Simple solution is to extend the fingers so that they are a bit longer, then our hands, while remaining large, also appear slender. I know that they have done such a thing to legs for people who are too short for a career that they really want, such as flight attendant, so why not do such for fingers?

My opinion is that hands being a lot more flexible than legs and requiring to be flexible to be able to grasp things with our opposable thumb, it would be largely cosmetic, but probably an hindrance. It also probably would look weird with the joint appearance.

Personally I have small hands and long fingers. I couldn't see my fingers longer, might be a bit scary.

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Hi,

I think you can also make finger longers and hand smallers without surgery. Finger gets longer with longer fingernails. I do not know the best color for it. If the hand is placed 50% inside of the sleeve.

What is more important is the texture of the skin. If you grap the hand of a worker you find a rough hard skin. A woman hand is more soft.

I am lucky. Me hands are small and I have long thin fingers. Based on my work with a computer I do not have rough skin ;)

I find the surgery for getting longer legs not nice. It is a torture over several weeks. your bone will get an artifical part. This is used to hold the lower and upper leg together because the bone can not do it because it is broken. So this would be much more difficult for a tiny bone like a finger bone. But doctors have a solution also for this. Some women has no tinny thin feets. So you can cut off the smallest toe to get a thin feet. So why not cut off one of the fingers? Make the hand look longer and thinner. This would be much more easy than to break all the small bones. I saw one guy with only four fingers on each hand. It take some time to find out that something is wrong with the hands. Also comic figures have only four fingers to make the hands smaller.

Greetings

Nelly

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Guest Donna Jean

I have small hands...both a curse and a blessing...

I've played guitar for 40 years, much professionally, and small hands and reletivly short fingers made it very difficult for many chords and I played solo so I had to work twice as hard as others to hit all of the notes...

Dang!

But, the blessing...I'm a woman and I have small hands. TA DA!!! lol

See....it all works out! :lol:

"Fingers" Donna Jean

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I can tell you that I do not have particularly small hands, at 6'4" you wouldn't expect them to be very small.

They are big enough that when playing basket ball I could palm the ball. (A good thing when you can't jump high enough to dunk with both hands - I could stretch and slam it with my left hand, I'm right handed but years of playing String Bass made the grip in my left hand pretty good and it is the slightly larger hand)

I have always let my finger nails grow pretty long, even before I admitted to myself that I was a woman - I'm just too lazy to trim them and they grow so fast!

One day while I was trying Electrolysis - doesn't work for me sensitive skin and we tried several times at all different settings (tiny little bumps for each hair gone) - she looked at me and I had my hands folded across my stomach, she said, "you're lucky, you have feminine hands."

I felt good about that because she had worked on a lot of Trannies, including her live in girl friend - I wish I could still have Electro, just because the girl friend always baked something to be coming out of the oven just as the sessions ended - I am missing that Cranberry nut bread this morning.

I had never really thought so, but it has to do with the way you position your hands - look at paintings by the old masters and look at the difference in hand positioning in the male and female subjects - they had it down!

Also there are some who say that your fingers will begin to look longer as they lose some of the male pattern fat, on HRT they will get slightly thinner, not much but it doesn't need much.

Remember when you are talking about bones - "If it ain't broke ..."

Love ya,

Sally

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