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Guest Velvet

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I would like to say hello!

I would like to just ramble a bit if that’s ok… I have been who I am for over 20 Years. A person who feels a pull like a light from the rocks telling danger is near. I’m very happy and very lucky to be in such a relationship with a woman who loves me as who I am. I feel a pleasure knowing that its ok to be me in my own skin, and even better to be one wearing lace on top of it.

I’m in my 30’s in very good shape, and feel a bit off from the other “CD’s” I have known and come across. I have long brown hair and have no need for a wig, or outrageous make up. I enjoy being me and the security that dressing gives me. Being a professional and owning my own business in Northern Nevada, I still find myself at odds with the years past, and the years coming.

I so enjoy the day to day life that im so lucky to have with family and friends. Yet I find like so many at odds with all I am, do, and enjoy. This is my “hello” note to all that I look forward to talking to. Im so very interested in talking with others who have such a loving woman in there lives as I do now. I wish to discover a balance like we all strive for, in love, understanding, and a bond that one another can have with such loving and interesting persons like myself.

I thank you all for such wonderful and loving posts I have been reading.

Now…

I look forward to posting in other posts and hope I can learn, be understood, and share all that I have.

V.

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Guest Elizabeth K

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME :D:D:D

Soon others will be here to bring refreshments and welcome you. You are at a great site. We are never judgemental and try our best to provide information and support.

We hope you look around - and post a few replies to others, and perhaps start a topic on something of interest to you.

Enjoy it here - I think you will like us. :P

Lizzy

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Good Morning V,

Well you were either up very late or get up very early, either way, I think that you might like some of those refreshments that Lizzy mentioned.

If you were up late, I'll give you some hot cocoa, but if you are up very early I'll get you a fresh cup of coffee, it's almost ready - le't see if we have any cookies left over from the night shift - there should be I went to sleep early last night and that makes a big difference. :D

The sweet rolls are fresh from the oven and nice and warm, just like all of the people that you will meet here - there it is, the tie in between virtual comfort foods and real comfort! :)

We are here to support each other and to exchange information to help make sense out of our slightly more complicated lives.

But along with support comes caring and from caring friendships - I have made some friends here that I hope to maintain as lifelong friends - the food is virtual, the caring is very real.

We also like to have fun! :D

After all Laura does call it a playground and we have entertainment and jokes forums so be serious when neededd and enjoy yourself - have a great time in a great place.

Welcome to the family!

Love ya,

Sally

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Welcome V!

You are very fortunate to have such a wonderful accepting relationship.

Look around the forum, ask some questions, and we are here to help! :D

Glad your here,

Ashlee

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Guest Donna Jean

Oh, Hello, V!

I apologize for being so late to say Hi, I've been in and out all day..

So, Welcome to the Playground! Nice to have you here with us. You are in for a treat. Once you read a bit here and meet some of the most awesome people, you'll wonder what took you so long to find us!

Get your self settled in and kick off your shoes and enjoy yourself...Safety, caring, fun...it's nice!

Now, get all comfey...............

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Guest Kelly Ann

Erm...Hello BVw...isn't it for the better knowing that you aren't some abberation of nature???!!? I'm going to stray and swerve back...fast. There was a long song cycle/poem called 'Alices' Restuarant' by Arlo Guthrie... The chorus could be the theme song for this site...what are your wishes (Blueberry Pancakes with syrup and milk for me)? You are sooo welcome to Laura's at anytime...the doors ALWAYS OPEN. No matter whether you are new here today or a regular (like in Cheers) or someone coming back after an absence. You will always have friends who care about here...who would have ever a thunk it? See, you have made yet another friend tonight, Kelly Ann

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Guest Krystyna_Marie

V - Welcome, hun! I think many of us here have learned that the journey is the destination, so you're among a lot of kindred spirits, although we are rarely all of one mind. THe water's fine, come on in :rolleyes:

Kisses - KM

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Guest Felicia Anne

hello v! i am felicia anne, and welcome the forums... hug!...

you have a need name! like christine mcvie of fleetwood mac... v is something you can rock!

well, since i have been neglectful of my kitchen duties (adjusting my apron), i am declaring the kitchen open for business, and i am taking requests! what would you like?

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