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Guest sally-jane

im a bit scared and a bit worried about to day as im going for my psych evaluation as i have had 1 lot of bad new this week i dont think i could take another set back is it me or am i over thinking it as the only thing i can do is just be my self and hope that it will be

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It is not a setback to be told "hold your course" even though that statement may not seem as if you are going forward. This is in all likelihood what you will be told in one form or another. It is not a cheer, and it is not a curse, but in the long run, it was an affirmation of our being. We are not disqualified, but we have not finished the race either. Hold your course and you will be fine.

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You are most ;likely over thinking it. I just rescently did my first eval and it was rather fun. Like most will tell you is that they are not out there to be an obstacle but rather a means of getting an objective and professional view so as to help you move forward in a positive manner. They want to help. Mine got great joy out of just talking to me . Relax and enjoy the day. Though I will say be honest with them and they will be open with you.

Kalie

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I'm sure you will do fine dear. Try to relax and enjoy your day including your evaluation. This life is a journey and if we can somehow enjoy each day instead of only trying to see ourselves in the future the ride is much more pleasant. It is easier said than done i know. We all get worried but that worry really doesn't help. Enjoying the day now does seem to be the best way to live.

Best of luck. Keep in touch. Sorry if i seem a bit preachy but i'm trying to live today as well.

Hugs,

Charlie

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Guest DianeATL

Hugs

A pysch eval is one test we don't have to study for! Just be yourself and you will be fine. Learning is fun, learning about ourselves is even more fun.

Diane

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