best of both worlds

[Guest tellulater1964]

I really have this question for you all, my future wife knows and encourages my dressing and wants that I am her woman so to speak, is it possible to be both her woman and her man, ie the best of both worlds so to speak, both feminine and a man in bed, she and I both want that I have the dual position of husband and wife, mentally and physically... again my post seems a bit rambling!

[VickySGV]

It will take learning and careful listening to develop a unique relationship between the two of you. What that relationship is will depend on you as two people, whether it will be the best of both worlds or not, or merely the "sorta ok" from one of them is not something one of us can predict, and you will not know until it is history. Get both of you in touch with a Behavioral Health professional that knows something about gender issues, and then have fun working with them and each other.

[Charlize]

I definitely agree with Vicky. Let me add this. If you decide that you are going to take hormone therapy all bets are off. It has been my experience that the ability to perform as a male in bed is gone. In my situation that is fine but for you and your partner that sounds like it wouldn't work. Be as honest as you can with her and with yourself. That is one reason seeing a therapist can be helpful. Knowing yourself can make life wonderful. Enjoy.

Hugs,

Charlize