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Guest Eve Caillard

My boots! I love my boots! I have everything from flat-heeled ankle boots I wear around the house (in front of the kids, too) to my high-heeled thigh boots. After that, a nice skirt, stockings, a swishy dress.... grief. I love it all but I do love a nice set of boots. My all-time favourite are a pair of brown suede front-lace-up 1.5 inch heeled boots that are slightly over the knee. They look so smart and make me feel a million dollars when on.

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Eve: Shoes and boots... yes, all my life I’ve admired ladies foot wear. They have so many elegant options to choose from. I can easily see how one can become a collector. :)

Ladies shoes boots are very smart and classy!

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Guest Eve Caillard

I don't call myself the Imelda Marcos of Laura's for nothing. :) I just wish I could stop buying the damn things. The saddest thing is having sofew occasions on which I can wear boots, but in the winter I do wear low-heeled mid-calf leather ladies boots to work, and no-one seems to notice. They are so cosy. So I do have a small victory in this.

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Guest Codille

I have to say having the time to get completely dressed and not trying to squeeze it in. I am talking Matching bra and panties, panty hose, nice dress, heels and make-up. Doesn't happen often but when it does I am on cloud nine!

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Guest MaryGennaeAngelina

Oh yeah, Pyramid C ollection. I bought boots and a few other things from them. Nice, but pricey. I bought boots from them once. I bought a new pair last week, they call them witches boots because they have long points but I still like them bunches.

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Guest AshleighP

I do love painted nails. I only do my fingernails when I have extended time to dress and my toenails only in the winter, cause then I don't have to remove it when wearing sandals. A couple weeks ago I was getting ready for bed and my wife said "do you have nail polish on your toenails"? I just said yes and that was the end of the conversation. I absolutely need to get a professional pedicure/manicure sometime soon.

I also love when my makeup comes out the way I want it to. The good days far outweigh the bad days for this now. Practice makes perfect I guess.

One thing I do regularly that never fails to bring me joy is shaving my legs, applying lotion, and slipping on a pair of tights. Best. Feeling. Ever.

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Guest Destiny Lynn

Stevie. I can't pick just one! Toenails were one of the first though and I always like that. But, you mentioned that. OK how about this one.

I picked out my first purse. I'm filling it now, little at a time. It hangs in the kitchen where I see it every time I walk through. Makes me feel very good, in so many different ways. "my own purse"! :) Destiny Lynn

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Guest sandra6sandy9sand

Hi Stevei,

My favorite thing is to get ready in the morning to go shopping. First a hot shower, then putting a pair of my faroite panties and bra on which is followed by tights, jeans and a top. I choose some jewerly, grab my jacket and out I go. I feel great and am ready to face the day.

I suppose there are quite a few favorite things listed there but when I put them all together, they are me.

Sandra

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Guest CD Laura Savatore34

Hey Stevie,

To me it has to be soft pair of leggings. With some sexy panties underneath.

Really jealous though, a lot of ladies can do things like paint nails or even go shopping.

I still have to keep it on down low...for now ;).

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Guest alexaz

OOOOOOOOOO A dangly belly button ring does it for me.

I just love it. Makes me feel so fem.

Dressing makes me feel so right but I dont know.... the belly button thing just makes my day.

GIGGLE

I would love to have it pierced but just cant justify the 6 months to several years of healing so I just have clip on thingies that work.

oh darn. now I have to put one on because Im thinking about it. YEAAAAAAAAA !!!! Giggle

Alexaz

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Guest Stevie

Thank you everyone for your great ideas! I read them all and say YES, I love that, what a great idea!



Dressing all up… Ohoooo, that will have to stay my fantasy for now ;-)



Panties are awesome! And I love hand washing them… is that silly?



It’s getting chilly here in MN now so, at home, leggings w/leg warmers and a sexy top are now my regular evening attire. I have to say... my legs and booty look awesome! :-)



A dangly belly button ring… absolute ecstasy!



Big hugs to all,


Stevie

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I have a certain problem...while serving in the US Marine Corps, I was in Iraq and was in an IED attack.  Long story short, I was in a coma for 21 days and lost my legs, the left one above  the knee, and the right below the knee.  So I am so jealous that you girls can wear heels, nylons, paint you toenails...i can't even really paint my finger nails because I lost several fingers halfway down also.  i guess what excites me is wearing sexy panties and my nighty.

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Tanya I am sorry for your loss but thankful for your service.  What is beautiful is that you can find joy in the things you do.  That's what is most important, being happy.  

Jani (former Navy)

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