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Hi, I am 41 and have just started on my journey to transition. I've known that I should have been born a girl since at least 8. I kept this part of me a secret for a very long time until it ate away at me emotionally so badly that I had to confide in my mother. Though understandably confused she has been supportive. Gradually I came out to other members of my family and all have been supportive also. Looking at some of the other posts I see that I am very fortunate to have the support of my family. I hope that I can find advice on transitioning "a little later in life" and learn from some of the experiences of others here at the Playground. Thank you all for any replies and support.

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Welcome to the Playground, Sunkist. Yes, there are lots of late transitioners here, including most of the Moderator staff. So you are in good company, and we can offer a lot from personal experience. But everyone is unique, and our experiences may not fit you. So take away what makes the most sense. I am glad to hear that your family is being supportive, and yes, it is not as common as I would like.

Once you have five posts, you'll gain access to the Private Message (PM) system and the member profiles. I do ask our new members to please read the site Terms and Conditions, as they help us keep the site safe. A link is found at the lower right of every page. I look forward to hearing more from you.

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Guest Cyndysub

Hello and welcome to Laura's Playground. I started HRT this year and turned 60 this year and to my surprise my mother is very supportive of me and no freak outs from my family or neighbors. All of this in Arkansas the buckle of the Bible Belt. Good luck to you on the journey to true self.

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Guest Purplez

Welcome, Sunkist! I am glad that you have the support of your family, that is amazing! Wishing you all the best on your journey and look forward to hearing more from you!

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Guest Carla_Davis

Hi Sunkist,

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

The Staff and Members are very Friendly and Helpful.

I hope that you find whatever your needs are here, especially, Good Supportive Friends :wub:

I am very happy to read how Supportive your family has been for you :score:

Family Support, is so helpful to make your transition easier, and happier.

You are very fortunate for your support, as you mention, some of us were not that fortunate.

I Came-Out Full-Time,in my early 50's, and my ENTIRE family could not accept me, and did everything possible to hurt me, and want me DEAD.

My ENTIRE family eventually, "Disowned" me completely in 2008, which was finally a relief.

I wish you Success and Happiness in your Journey :wub:

Hugs,

Carla

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Hello Sunkist

Welcome to our community that is a Playground for those of who realize we let society dictate what we are. Now we're listening to our heart and becoming the person, the beautiful person that has been hiding inside of us. It's never too late and your never too old to release her into the world Sunkist.

Welcome Sunkist to Laura's. We're happy you found your way here. BTW, I'm Kathy

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Hi Sunkist,

I finally came out as trans to everyone, and immediately thereafter started transitioning this year, at the young age of 55. It is never too late to become yourself. :)

hugs,

Stephanie

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Guest miss kindheart

Hi Sunkist,
<<< hug >>>
Welcome to Laura's Playground.
Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.
The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.
Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.
One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)
We all look forward to seeing you.
:wub: vanna

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