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Went Shopping For The First Time in Ten Months.


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Guest Roberta-Belinda

I finally did it. I went shopping for femme clothes for the first time since February. I have been out of work for a while and have had little money in recent times but on Friday I had a enough cash on me to go on a very small shopping expedition. My plan was to go the charity shops and buy some dresses and skirts there. However, I find that the clothes in such shops are all crammed together making browsing difficult. I went into an inexpensive ladies store in my town and bought a cute glittery black blouse which be ideal for a Christmas night out. I also bought a long red gypsy skirt that I am not completely happy with but I will grow to love. I did try the glittery blouse on with one of my black skirts with nude tights and the combination was breathtaking. I was so pleased with I wore it again the next day. On the next day I managed to spend the whole day lying on the bed dressed as Belinda with a snug pair of tights. It was great and completely satisfying weekend.

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Sounds like a great shopping trip, RB. I'm really glad that you got to go out and do something for yourself. Shopping is fun, no matter ones budget. Congrats!

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Carla_Davis

Hi Roberta,

I am so glad that you shopping experience went so well, as your femme self :thumbsup:

Early Christmas present shopping for yourself.

Try and not buy items that you are not completely happy with, and will grow to like.

Even if you need to spend a little more, you will be happier with clothes that make you fell good.

Finally,I am glad that you had a satisfying weekend.

You may want to share a photo of your new purchases, in your Gallery.

Hugs,

Carla

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Guest Roberta-Belinda

Thanks ladies for your kind comments. Carla, sadly I have never been out as my femme self, but would love to one day. I am hoping I can go on another shopping spree before Christmas.

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Guest Ellyssa

Roberta-Belinda:

Please tell me you picked up something festive with sequins! It sounds beautiful.

If it is sequined, be careful with the top, the cheaper ones will lose sequins from a stiff breeze.

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Welcome to LP Ocean1,

For starters. Clothing websites will have size charts available as well as how to measure yourself.

There is a information on here about that but I do not have that information at my fingertips at the moment.

Hopefully someone else will chime in with that.

Secondly.

Go to the store and try the clothing on.

Huggs, :wub:

Joann

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