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Another Malfunction Wardrobe


Guest Wendae

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Another wardrobe malfunction. Recently I purchased some silicone breast forms to replace my foam rubber ones. I usually wear a pocket bra but today I put on an older one. It seemed a bit loose but I also had on a nylon spandex cami that seemed to give me the desired support. Off to do some shopping. All went well until several hours later at Publix I notice some slippage and made a slight adjustment. Still as I was cruising around things didn't feel right. Reaching up for another adjustment I discovered my boobs were gone! :shock: They had slipped out of the bra and were at my waist line. :oops: I got off to the side of an aisle and fished the back into place without attracting any noticeable attention. rotf Another CD adventure!

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At least you didn't get stopped for shoplifting!! That is what goes thru my mind if I end up having to do something like reach inside my shirt. I find bras to be really good for carrying things like papers, money, cell phones, ipods. The uses are endless!

As a teen I once got stopped and interrogated at the local grocery story about what I had stuffed in the front pocket of my sweatshirt...um, my hands?

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I had that happen to me and shortly afterwards switched over to underwire bras that were a bit tight. Things never went south after that. One day while working on the farm i was moving rocks at the edge of a field on a hot day in summer. Obviously i was wearing a T and was also more than a bit damp. Oops...... i caught a form as it jumped out and instead of a rock i had a form in my gloved hand. A quick stuff so my helper didn't see. Shortly afterwards i went to pocket bra's meant for post mastectomy. Finally my girls were tucked safely in an escape proof bed.

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Charlize

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Wow, Wandae - that's some slippage! Glad you were able to recover without problems! How embarrassing. It reminds me of the time I settled the silicones into a bra, smiled smugly at myself in the mirror, only for one to drop with that silicone splat/squelch on my foot. they have a way of wriggling out of the most confined spaces, don't they! The bras with holding cups seem to be the most reliable but I very much prefer to be able to drop mine into a regular bra, so that I feel 'right' with wearing the right clothes and not adapted ones. I personally find a non-wired bra is the best for me. I have a lovely, saggy old non-wired bra that never, ever lets me down for holding them in, and at the same time allows them to bounce and wobble as they should. I love that bra and I think it is important to find the exactly right bra for the silicones. That bra 'makes' me as a girl.

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