How many Crossdressers are bisexual?

[Guest honeynocturnal]

Hi. I am curious to know how other cd'ers behave sexually. I have not yet dressed up to be with a woman, only for men. I have always been bisexual, but have been with more women than men.

I always take the female role when I am with a man. It just feels right to me. I find it extremely stimulating and satisfying. I am starting to think that my sexuality is overtly female, even when I'm with another female. Am I crazy?

I used to dream of transforming into a female, but I am comfortable with my body now that I know I can dress up and pretend to be a girl quite effectively.

[Charlize]

Welcome to Laura's. You might wish to post an introduction in that forum.

Often we find that our gender issues are not related to our sexual preferences but that is certainly not always the case.

We ask all our new members to read the terms and conditions found at the bottom of any page.

Hugs,

Charlize

[Guest Amber L.]

Hello. Honeynocturnal. Welcome to Lauras. I consider myself a cross dresser but I also feel I'm bi. Love being both but favor my feminine side more. No your. It crazy. Just a free spirit. Hugs. Amber L

[Guest Eve Caillard]

Hi Honey

No, I am not bi. I am a cross-dresser but I have no interest in men, although I have never had that put to the test. I suspect like a good number of cross-dressers, I kind of see myself as a "male lesbian".

Being a male who feels feminine, has a feminine brain and who is not very masculine in nature, instead I find I adore women in every sense, to the level of wanting to be one. As such I cannot act like a man with them. I don't chase, flirt, or 'be the man' with them. Instead I befriend women and end up as part of their social groups. But that does not make me feel attracted to men.

It's a strange and sometimes lonely life. I am lucky in that I found a lady who could make the jump herself on our behalf from friend to lover. She is now my wife.

But little can change the 'disconnect' I have from the traditional male role, and being instead a kind of 'hybrid'.

Hugs Eve.

[Guest honeynocturnal]

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Thanks for the comments. And Eve raises a good parallel to my own life as I find myself just wanting to be accepted as "one of the girls".. I have more and closer female friends than male friends. Yet only a couple of them know of my true nature. It has started to become an inhibitor as I have played it straight for so long... but I feel more and more like I am blossoming and I'm no longer afraid to be beautiful...

[Guest brenda lee]

Sweetie, I have wondered if I was bi ,there have been times when I was younger I thought what would it be like to be in a male-male relation ,and get to be totally fem in it .LOL BrendaLee

[Guest]

I'm MtF (who knows how far it will go) and am only interested in women.

Now, trying to remember the absolute proper way to refer to female at birth who fine with herself. Some say CIS, some don't like that term. Sorry, I still get confused

[Guest honeynocturnal]

Sweetie, I have wondered if I was bi ,there have been times when I was younger I thought what would it be like to be in a male-male relation ,and get to be totally fem in it .LOL BrendaLee

I had been trying to get a girlfriend for a couple of years with no success. For a while it was very frustrating and disappointing, but I have finally realized that most women are not attracted to me in that way and really never were. All of my past girlfriends have been consciously or latently bisexual.

It's not a bad thing to have options. I found a man a couple of months ago who is quite willing to let me play the feminine role, and I love it! I know I can have a happy and healthy sex life even if I never sleep with a woman again. That's comforting.

I would still welcome a female in my life, as long as she could accept my feminine side.

[Tanya]

Well I am brand new to this group.  I am a CD.  I believe I am a woman in a mans body.  I just feel at peace with myself when pleasing a man dressed as a woman.  I feel like a woman so being with a man seems natural for me.  when I am not dressed I can not see myself being with a man.  i dress when I am with a man and play the role as the total girl.

[tracy_j]

Hi Tanya - welcome x

Interesting thoughts! Speaking as someone who is essentially non-binary, your thinking is not a million miles from mine.  I suppose, dressing most of the time feminine even when essentially presenting male, I think more about it as the boundaries are often very vague!

Tracy

[Tanya]

Yes...I feel like in order to be with a man, I have to be in that "Girly girl" role, dressed sexy.   can't explain it.  I  also do not like for the man to touch my privates at all.  I just want the feeling of being the girl totally.  lol

[Guest]

I read my post here from a couple years ago. Interesting. While I still am not really attracted to men, I do find myself more interested in looking. Just looking......

[Jenny Leigh]

I really cannot say. I am definitely not into guys. I have no desire to be with a hairy masculine guy. But I frequently think about other crossdresser, transgender, etc. 

I have never been with one, and I have a very understanding partner who occasionally treats me like a girl. I would sooner call myself a lesbian with extra equipment than bisexual. I find myself loathing the thought of any man touching me. 

I cannot say why, exactly, but when I am dressed, I feel complete. I feel softer, better, more at ease, and wondering how I ever could go back to being just another guy. I am definitely a woman lover. Is it considered bisexual if you think about other transgender or crossdresser? I have a hard time defining it that way.

but on the other hand, I do enjoy being on the receiving end. ???

I guess I am the classic case of someone who is a little confused about what I want to be when I grow up!