Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

A Little Introduction Which Turned Out Longer Than Expected


Kaede

Recommended Posts

Hey Everyone.

I'm new here... Well new to posting (and owning an account), I've been browsing the site and forums on and off over a few years but finally I plucked up the courage to start posting and where better to start than then introduction section?

So I guess I should start by saying my name's Katie (not my birth name but the one I go by), I'm 16 and I was born male but since the age of 8 (but more seriously at 12) I have been questioning why I'm so uncomfortable and confused in this body. About 3 years ago I came to the conclusion that what I'm feeling is likely is becuase I'm transgender but it's all so confusing.

Anyways I know 16 is pretty young to start my journey but I've read the younger you are when you start the better. First step is coming out to my parents which I plan to do soon. (I tried 3years ago to my mum but she shrugged it off as a phrase)

To finish it off I'm excited to finally be posting here and am glad to be part of an amazing community :)

((Sorry for any grammar or spelling mistakes I'm sending this from my phone while I'm on holiday in Turkry haha))

Link to comment
  • Admin

Hi Katie, welcome to the Playground, we do speak your language as far as the feelings of being Trans* go. Not to be a spoil sport, but do take it easy if you get some push-back from the parents just now, because you need their support for the time being. If you are insisting to go forward NOW and not one minute later it could be pretty bad. I am one who proves there is no absolute mandatory cut off age to begin moving and getting things done. So, enjoy your time here, get information (we try to see here that it is good and non-harmful information) and work for the day you can become who you NEED to be.

Hope you are enjoying the holiday!!

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Welcome to Laura's. I though there was someone prowling around. Glad you have joined us. Take your time, read, post and perhaps test the waters again with your parents. Vicky is right.... there is no race and it is better to go into transition when you are secure in your position than at other times. too many of us have trouble even supporting ourselves.

That being said i'm a bit jealous. Enjoy your holiday!

Hugs,

Charlize

Link to comment

Thanks for the responses. I'm having a great time on holiday :) .

As for my parents and coming out, my mum is a very accepting "I'll love you no matter what" kind of person it just happens the last time I mentioned it to her my family was going though a lot (bad timing xD) so I think that had something to do with her response. Everything has setting down (has been for some time now) and I think it will go better. I must of came across like I was rushing things but I'm only taking things as fast as I feel safe in my situation :) the last thing I want is to be thrown out or worse (however I do have a plan if that were to happen. Extremely unlikely to though)

Thanks again for the responses and warm welcomes ^-^

(Gosh, I write way too much o.o )

Link to comment

Hello Katie, and Welcome to Laura's ! Nice to have you join in! You are doing just fine, please feel free to post whenever you can. Really nice to hear that your mom is accepting.

Enjoy your holiday!

Huggs,

Opal

Link to comment
  • Admin

Welcome to the Playground, Katie. I hope you find this place to your liking, and make good use of it. There is a lot of experienced folks here, a lot of good advice, and a supportive environment. You are safe here.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   7 Members, 0 Anonymous, 311 Guests (See full list)

    • Ivy
    • Vidanjali
    • ClaireBloom
    • Ashley0616
    • JenniferB
    • VickySGV
    • SamC
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      770.1k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,092
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Selena729
    Newest Member
    Selena729
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Angelo christoper
      Angelo christoper
      (38 years old)
    2. Joslynn
      Joslynn
      (61 years old)
    3. Kaltia_Atlas
      Kaltia_Atlas
    4. Rika_Lil
      Rika_Lil
      (40 years old)
    5. Summerluv
      Summerluv
      (19 years old)
  • Posts

    • Vidanjali
      Thea, your post made me think of a comic named Chloe Petts whom I saw recently on Hannah Gadsby's Gender Agenda comedy special on Netflix. She is a cisgender masculine lesbian. She is brilliant and so funny. I was intrigued by her identification - specifically masculine, not butch. And it seems to me there is a difference. 
    • Vidanjali
      Today I had a dr appt. When I checked in, I was asked my surname, which I gave. Apparently there were two patients with appointments at that time with that same surname. The receptionist asked, "Are you (my legal name which is feminine) or Paul?" I got such a kick out of it not being assumed I had the feminine name. 
    • Vidanjali
      That must have felt affirming, albeit perhaps weirdly so. However, I'd construe that more broadly (no pun intended) as sexism rather than misogyny where the latter would imply contempt. Also, incidentally, I've heard chivalry referred to as "benevolent sexism". 
    • MaeBe
      My boss is in a panic. His business is a couple straws away from breaking a camel in half. He's just handling the stress very poorly.   My dad, though. He's handling things pretty well, as long as I continue to don't get massively offended by being called: son, boy, etc. His eldest is leaving the State and looks so different than he's been used to over the years. I haven't told him I'm on HRT, but to be fair the changes haven't been massive. I've always had boobs, more so after COVID weight gain and made more obvious with its loss, but now I'm not hiding them--and obviously wearing a bra. The estrogen has done some work, but nothing major (sadly). I think the biggest HRT changes have been my skin and a mild amount of fat redistribution.   Today I'm wearing my cheater, I almost have cleavage! :D I need to get another t-shirt bra to keep a good rotation. I only have two, one push-up, and the rest are unlined (great for Summer, but not great for my Summer wardrobe ).
    • Justine76
      Thank you so much April! 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Glad to hear it. Abby
    • JenniferB
      I eat a ketogenic diet and have had no problems. I don't know about your case but I suspect it is the estrogen. Research the types of ways to take estrogen. Pay close attention to the bloodwork results. If they are not satisfactory, bring it up with your doctor. I take injectables, which are fully covered by insurance. It may not be the route for you, but something to consider. I emphasize to do your research and good luck. You can solve this. Be persistent.    Jennifer
    • April Marie
      I'm in a magenta blouse under a baby blue buttoned cardigan - still a little cool here in the northeast today - with dark blue jeans. Oh, and my favorite flame colored copper feather earrings.
    • April Marie
      What a wonderful photo! You look gorgeous!!!
    • Justine76
      White crop top and capri jeans ;) Finaly tricked the face id on my phone, "that's not you" lol.
    • JenniferB
      This is my opinion, so take it for that. Fatigue is based more on what you eat. Eat a more healthy diet, and stay away from ultra-processed foods and that should help. Think of eating the way we did a couple hundred years ago before the industrial revolution. It's just a thought.   Jennifer
    • April Marie
      Welcome back, Jennifer! As a relative newbie to the forum and to transition, I look forward to getting to know you and share in your experiences.
    • JenniferB
      I like the fact that you found support and have close members of your life. That is very important. No matter where you are on your journey, you have to have the support. Or you drift, and you question yourself.    Looking forward to your progress,   Jennifer
    • JenniferB
      The source of estrogen can matter. I started HRT at age 50. My avatar was the result. I started on pills, and moved to estradiol valerate injectables. However, there was a shortage, and I had to use a compounding pharmacy. The estradiol would evaporate in the vial, and couldn't get 5 doses out of it. I eventually move to the patch.    Over time I realized the patch wasn't working properly. And, the last time I visited my doctor he told me my estrogen levels were low. He asked me if I wanted to change to estradiol valerate. I jumped for joy. So I started my script for estradiol valerate. My prescription was ready, but I didn't receive my script for needles for a couple of weeks. So I bought my own (legal). I started with intramuscular injections. This requires a longer needle, and the estrogen is released into the muscles. It has a powerful effect right away but isn't stable. So by the time I took my next injection 2 weeks later, the estradiol in my bloodstream was almost gone. When I finally received my script for my needles, the needle was shorter. So the injection was subcutaneous. What is different with this type of injection as that the estrogen released is more even over 2 weeks (before the next injection). Interesting the syringe/needles my doctor prescribed are so much higher in quality. I am going to follow his path. My breasts are now perky again. And I will let my doctor guide me.    I wish you success on your journey. Let us know how things are proceeding. I am happy for you.   Jennifer 
    • JenniferB
      Patches are the HRT method of least risk. Be aware of your estrogen levels with bloodwork. My doctor took me off patches because my estrogen levels were low. And put me on estradiol valerate injections. I have to say that made a big difference. Be aware of the changes. I don't know your age, or circumstances, but I would research available options of administering hormones.    There are other methods of taking estrogen, and you should research all of them. When my doctor changed my prescription to estradiol valerate amazing things happened. He was slow to prescribe the needles so I ordered them online. I have used injectables before. Getting the nerve to poke myself with the needle was a great hurdle to overcome.   As far as a rollercoaster feeling, I never felt that as much as the excitement of finally starting HRT. That overrode everything. I couldn't focus on how my emotions changed, for excitement trumped all emotions. Let the emotions of starting HRT settle, then make the decisions you feel will best benefit you.    Good luck with your journey,   Jennifer
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...