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Guest dani35

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Hi ladies.

I was just wondering what your cross-dressing fantasies are and they don't need to be sexual either before you start thinking I'm nosey.

Personally, I'd love to go to work in an office for the day dressed as Daniella, or maybe work in a restaurant waiting tables. I often think how lucky these ladies are to spend all day looking sexy in their uniforms and they don't even realise it.

I'm interested to see if any of you would like to be a showgirl on stage? a bride at the alter?... would you like to go shopping whilst you are your female self?

Love Dani xx

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I'd say being able to go out dressed and pass 100%. Voice and everything.

Only in my fantasy could that happen.

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The fantasies are fine until you try to put them into action, and then they can become terrifying. Your best fantasies should be the ones you can carry out with what you have or can do. Your favorite restaurant where you are treated as yourself, or a club where you can step out on the dance floor, and actually no one notices. You are just there having fun. The day you can just go, and not even have passing cross your mind. That one is priceless, but you can do it. It can be a long list and longer still if your fantasy is on you alone and not some outside person.

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I used to fantasize about being with other women as one of them. Shopping, dressing up, sharing tips on makeup and hair styles, but mostly i just wanted to be with them instead of on the wrong side of the room.

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Charlize

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I think there are real (possible) fantasies and the ones that could never happen.

An example of the first is going shopping as a woman. This was one of my earliest and one of the easiest to realise as when I am out shopping I get absorbed, so often, either don't see or happily ignore any negative reaction. In practice this makes things easier so it is confidence building !

An example of the second would be getting pregnant and having a baby (at least currently). This made an interesting dream (I can at times direct what I will dream about when asleep).

My analytical mind pushes me to evaluate my fantasies and work toward those which I have a good chance of putting into practice. These though are usually specific happenings rather than daily things. An example would perhaps wearing a swimsuit on a beach. Not an everyday happening with our weather but it is something that I look towards as I love the sea! I almost got there this year but at my last opportunity the weather was terrible and cold :(

I think really though that I agree with Charlize. Being at one with women was a fantasy and something that I felt even before I realised it. An everyday 'get on with life' happening!

Tracy

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I agree with the above and since I attend OA and HOW (it's more stringent cousin) meetings I am thrust into almost all women enviroments biweekly. As alluded to it feels good.

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Guest Amy LeBlanc

Hello All:

I would have to say that my fantasies is to be able to dress up and pass 100% as a girl. Then to go out shopping with other girls and trying on girls clothes and showing them off. Being able to be one of the girls at a mall sitting in the food court talking, laughing, enjoying myself.​

One of my other fantasies is to have a boyfriend and to hand out with him.

Then I have a third one that might not be appropriate since it could be sexual and porno graphic.

I will leave my third one off of here.

Thanks

Amy

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I know someone who does hair and make up for pin up photo shoots. Whenever I see the photos I always wish that was me getting made up like a pin up girl and posing for a photo shoot. But, she has no idea about Scarlett.

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Guest Janine cd

My most favorite fantasy is being dressed in a fabulous evening gown wearing sparkling heels and having the most beautiful hairdo, painted nails,and flawless makeup. Unfortunately, this is not about to happen in my lifetime.

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Guest Kumari0125

I wish my CD sessions could be much longer, like for days rather than for hours. From what I've learned most CDs who got limited time get aroused more often when they try their female garments and this includes me. I guess if I have a longer time to be myself while CDing (without the distraction of needing to go back to boy mode after few hours) that'll enable me to relax and enjoy being a girl better.

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For me, the passing fantasy has become reality.

Now my fantasy is to be an accomplished, respectable, powerful woman in the Construction industry.

It would be great to be the right hand for the ceo of a large corporation but even better would be to have my own successful business.

I know of several Local woman owned construction companies doing well and to be among them would be bliss!

I guess my fantasy is more of a goal compared to wanting to experience pregnancy.

Getting pregnant doesnt appear to be in the cards for me this time around! Lol. I have come to accept that. But I still think it would have been awesome.

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My fantasy is having unlimited wardrobe, shoes, hair, lingerie in my own private apartment where i can dress up whenever i want.

Not to mention going on a date with a man and being treated like a lady. Nothing sexual, but just playing the part of the woman and being taken care of for a change.

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My fantasy would be to be able to dress up and go out with the girls on the town. I want to just be in the spotlight just once as Kandy. Have all the bells and whistles for me.

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Guest AshleighP

Fantasy, wish, dream, ambition, they all run together. But, all have one common thread for me. A supporting spouse who understands, encourages, and maybe even helps me be who I really am.

The commonwealth of Virginia has hundreds of wineries. So I guess my one favorite fantasy involves going wine tasting with a group of ladies and just enjoying the time.

I am also a part time musician ( I play at some of those wineries I talked about). Being able to dress and play at a winery sometime would be amazing.

Oh well, neither one will probably ever happen, but a girl can dream right?

Ashleigh

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Never say "never" Ashleigh. So many of us have found ways to live past our wildest dreams. Regardless the dreams are wonderful.

Hugs,

Charlize

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My fantasy? Going for a long walk in the sunshine and cry my eyes and heart out to the very last tear.

Lie down in a meadow of bright flowers swaying in a warm breeze. Soon wake up to find I am a most beautiful woman, in a land of only women. Women that only love not catty or mean. A wonderful female place. Absolutely no trace of me ever knowing anything male.

No men to objectify, give disapproving looks, talk down to, ridicule, act better than, no manners or smell bad. No one to fear.

Each women would be pregant, I don't know maybe immaculate conception, to feel the nurchering joy of raising their own daughters.

I dream of that place when I'm up or I'm down. Most of the time really. I just can't get there from here.

One day or night, off in the universe I will fly, to that very wonderful place for me. I'm waiting, a little impatiently I'm waiting. Lord I'm waiting...

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Guest Wendae

Hello All:

I would have to say that my fantasies is to be able to dress up and pass 100% as a girl. Then to go out shopping with other girls and trying on girls clothes and showing them off. Being able to be one of the girls at a mall sitting in the food court talking, laughing, enjoying myself.​

One of my other fantasies is to have a boyfriend and to hand out with him.

Then I have a third one that might not be appropriate since it could be sexual and porno graphic.

I will leave my third one off of here.

Thanks

Amy

I'm with you on your third fantasy

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Guest Wendae

I think being a waitress all day wearing heels would start to pall a bit after the first couple of hours,my fantasie is to wear a thick black rubber catsuit, underneath I would wear a rubber pantee to keep all smooth then a hood with breath restraints,to finish a corset laced tightly.

Not a hope in ++++ of achieving this but thats what fantasies are about.

vivianmichelle

We are sisters with one fantasy. I would however prefer a mistress.

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Guest brenda lee

Mine is to have been born as a natural gg .I also dream of being a bride walking down the aisle to get married in a beautiful white dress

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