Cross-dressing fantasies

[randigurl]

Going out dressed for a makeover.

[shayla98]

Doing a Derek Blanks alter ego photoshoot where I can play various roles(man or woman) in one shot.

Just google 'Derek Blanks alter ego' his work is amazing!

1.A photo where I'm all the members in an all girl band, or a sultry R&B group performing at a concert.

2. A photo where I'm a powerful female executive conducting a meeting with her secretary(me too).

3. A photo where I'm a female talk show host interviewing with a male celebrity(me too).

4. A photo of me dressed as a man and woman couple stepping out of a limousine onto the red carpet.

5. A photo of me dressed as a newlywed couple with the bride being carried by the groom.

6. A photo of me dressed as a high school nerd trying to talk to the most popular girl in school(me too).

[Arianna]

Mine would have to be actually be being born as an actual girl not only mentally but physically. I then dream of how my first 19 years would have been. I like to see myself as a cheerleader who goes shopping all the time.

[Robin Silk]

i guess my fantasy is to live in a world where i could be who i want to be without discrimination or judgement and i would be accepted for who i am. for me this would be living my life as a woman in every way except keeping my male parts down below.

i think this fantasy will come true but i am just not sure if it will be in my lifetime, things are changing pretty quickly for the transgender community right now. i was at a lgbt meeting and the topic was the legalization of gay marriage and most of the group said they never thought this would occur in their lifetime.

[Krystal88]

Hello all!

Im new here and glad to be here. This is a great site.

My fantasy would be to go to work everyday fully dressed in beautiful skirts and dresses. It would also be great to go shopping with a group of girls and have lunch, etc and totally pass.

Krystal

[Kasfest]

I used to fantasize about being with other women as one of them. Shopping, dressing up, sharing tips on makeup and hair styles, but mostly i just wanted to be with them instead of on the wrong side of the room.

A hundred times this! Whilst it feels good to wear nice things, my clothes are all androgynous since appearance isn't the highest priority for me - it's all about the social interaction with other women that I crave!

That said, I would have to say that my greatest fantasy (currently) is for it to be perfectly acceptable for a skirt and leggings to be on a male body! I could put a load of effect into trying to pass, but the stress of that completely defeats the original point of wearing them to feel comfortable and relaxed!

[tracy_j]

I used to fantasize about being with other women as one of them. Shopping, dressing up, sharing tips on makeup and hair styles, but mostly i just wanted to be with them instead of on the wrong side of the room.

A hundred times this! Whilst it feels good to wear nice things, my clothes are all androgynous since appearance isn't the highest priority for me - it's all about the social interaction with other women that I crave!

That said, I would have to say that my greatest fantasy (currently) is for it to be perfectly acceptable for a skirt and leggings to be on a male body! I could put a load of effect into trying to pass, but the stress of that completely defeats the original point of wearing them to feel comfortable and relaxed!

Obviously depends a bit on your situation Kasfest but with increased confidence I do go out with leggings and skirt when essentially presenting male, although with my long red hair and increasingly female manner at a glance I am, as far as I am aware, not obviously male. My trick is to wear a short black tube skirt over the leggings. It can be confused with a long top, but just feels right. It is possible to pull it higher as well so it's not so obvious. I recently went to a bowling evening with friends from work dressed like this and was not aware of any funning looks (apart from a couple of female party members who were not fully aware of my trans status lol). From this it is easier to progress to a more feminine skirt (which I am wearing at this instant with leggings).

Tracy

[Kasfest]

Hi Tracy! It's all relatively new to me, so there's no long hair or voice training for the foreseeable future (and I don't think HRT is the right choice for me) - it's definitely something I'll be trying once I've got some more experience!

Cassie x

[robinmaybe]

That's a really cool fantasy Shayla98. I really like how you are playing both male and female roles in your fantasy pictures. I was wondering what happens to the nerd trying to talk to the girl? Is he successful or does he flee in embarrassment? It's like you've created a story in my mind with just a short description. Sorry if I'm rambling, I just wanted to tell you how much I liked your fantasy.

[robinmaybe]

My favourite fantasy is having a sleepover with a couple of girls my own age who accept me for who I am I'd be wearing a pink nightie, my favourite pink faux fur lined hoodie, a pink fleece bathrobe and pink fuzzy socks (in case you haven't already noticed pink is my favourite colour. I think it's because I resent missing out on twenty years of femininity and I'm subconsciously trying to make up for lost time by being as girly as possible.) It would be cold and windy outside but we'd be nice and warm curled up in front of a glowing fireplace. We'd spend the night trying on clothes and makeup, doing each others hair, playing pranks, teasing each other, gossiping, giggling and watching Disney movies (again, I was robbed of a girlhood). They wouldn't care that I wasn't close to passing or that my voice was masculine, they'd just accept me as one of the girls. We'd spend the night talking and would drift off to sleep one by one and the night would end with me wrapped up in my pink sleeping bag drifting of to sleep knowing that for the first time in my life I'd been accepted for who I truly am. Sigh. Probably not going to happen in the near future but a girl? / guy? can always dream.

[Guest Roberta-Belinda]

I have so many fantasies. As others have said I would just love to hang around with a bunch of girls and go out for the evening with them dressed up to the nines and looking pretty. I just wish that I had been a real girl and turn the clock back to my first party in high school as a twelve year old and be dressed in a pretty party dress and tights or a flared trouser suits. Like many I have always had that fantasy of being a bride. Another thing I would love to do is be a female character in a 40's film, I love the clothes, the hair styles and the fashions especially the hairstyles and the those black stockings with the seams at the back.

[Lisagirl]

To have a man hold me and treat me like a lady.

[Arianna]

I actually have a new one where I just get to be the woman I always dream of being. By that I mean getting to hang out with my "girlfriends" and do things with them that I normally wouldn't be able to. Also being able to be in a relationship without feeling weird about how I feel on the inside

[Guest]

My fantasy? Happiness, true happiness.......

[Guest Eve Caillard]

I know this is off the wall, but what I'd love to have more than anything else is genuine, proper breasts. Jokingly, I said to my wife a few days ago: "I fancy getting implants". She shrugged and replied, "if you want." 

Girls, I do not think she expects me to take it up. And I won't. But the fantasy / desire remains...  If only.

Eve

[Redjezika]

In my younger (thinner), much more braver days I went out twice to the local "we are accepted" bar. I was hit on by men and women. It felt great. I sure do miss those days. 

 

[Terrieann]

I would love to host an evening of wine and conversation with a half dozen or so other CDs.  Sharing feelings, thoughts, fashion and beauty tips and laughs. The best part would be the safe haven and "no judgement zone".

 

Someday......

[Redjezika]

My fantasy is to live in a world where it's acceptable for a man to dress like a woman without judgement or hatered. I'd love to be able to comfortably go out as who I am without any worry in the world. It'd be an interesting world and I guarantee you'd see a lot of men wearing women's clothes. who decided women should only be allowed to wear maxi skirts, hose n heels anyways??? Lol

[Guest Kenna Dixon]

On 12/31/2015 at 8:20 AM, Charlize said:

So many of us have found ways to live past our wildest dreams. 

 

I think that describes me.

Not having any specific fantasies, I was driven simply to test the waters in public.  I never dreamed that I would be totally accepted simply as someone doing her job by both those who knew I was transgender and those who did not.  In three different office environments, there was never the slightest problem.  I still look back and wonder how that was even possible.