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My first appointment...

KelcieK

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Well... I had my first appointment with my GT. Without going thru all the details... I must say it went extremely well. She and I had a great discussion and subsequently gave me some homework to do! I was a little nervous but after the first few moments I was really at ease talking with her and expressing who I really am. It was very helpful. My next appointment will be in about a month and can't wait.

-Kelcie

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Congratulations. The first one is always the scariest because there are so many unknowns. But you are on the path now and be sure and to enjoy the ride.

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Great to read Kelcie. Mine was a she. Remember she's your therapist and not everybody in your daily life who has a opinion on your journey therapist. My family and close friends had a habit of saying " she doesn't know what she talking about".as if they knew the whole discusion we were having. She taught me tools to use in my everyday life that not trans related too and I will be for ever greatfull. Smiles... Sarah

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My first session was much the same. At first i was a bit nervous but very shortly i was at ease and had a great session. Like you i couldn't wait for more visits. I'm glad you are also finding the experience to be so positive. It is a wonderful journey towards finding a path that fits while leaving the baggage of shame and fear behind.

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Charlize

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My second appointment was yesterday. The short version from my session is that I can't express how happy I am to finally commit to being me and having a wonderful therapist to bring out the emotions, feelings, and everything about me. I am truly happy to finally taking care of me and being who i am rather than conforming to some role sat out by someone else. My GT gave me approval for a letter to see the Endo and told me she will write it when I'm ready. I go back to see her in July! My journey is really picking up speed. In the meantime she gave me a couple Endo's to contact so I can get a feel for waiting lists, costs, etc...so that is part of my next step! Either way...I'm just sooo excited and happy right now! :)

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That is wonderful news Kelcie! I'm sure your walking on air. Somehow just dropping the quilt, fear and shame can bring the head up high.

Thanks for sharing your journey. In the midst of some of the news you bring sunlight.

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Charlize

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UPDATE: My third appointment was yesterday and was a definite milestone for me and my transition. It was the first time I was able to present as myself to anyone and being out in public. It was wonderful experience, so much so I didn't want to return back to male mode. My GT commented a few times on how pretty I looked. I was so happy. I posted a picture in my gallery going to see my GT! My plan is to go back in about 6 weeks where we will sit down to write the letter of rec. It appears I'll be on track to get my first endo appt late oct/early Nov and get started on hrt in december. I'm excited...I'd love for it to be sooner but trying to remain patient!

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Hi Kelcie,

Sorry I'm so late joining in with your thread (honestly, I'll be late for my own funeral - I know it).

Anyway, I just wanted to say how pleased I am that it's all going so well for you and that you are at last moving forward. I remember how much I used to look forward to my GIC appointments - I saw each on as being a step closer. Now though, they are behind me and I sometimes miss them. Anyway, just thought I would say 'good for you girl'.

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Hi Kelcie, Thank you so much for sharing your experience ^__^ It's reassuring when I see how great other's therapy sessions went since I am just starting them for myself next week. Keep us updated!

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I have been taking things slow and haven't posted in awhile but I thought I'd give an update.  My letter of rec has been completed and sent to my Endo as of today!!! Yay! I should have my first Endo appointment within a month or so! Can't wait to get going on the HRT... I'm still on schedule to begin by December. That was my plan anyways! Happy girl here! :)

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Congratulations! I've been on HRT since January, one of the best things I've ever done. Be forewarned the girls may hurt at times, but that means they are growing! :D

 

 

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Well. I think I need to update how things are going. My plan to see my Endo Dr in December didnt quite pan out as I had hoped for because i had a lot going on but all of that has been resolved and I'm back on path. My first appt with my Endo has been scheduled during the first week of March! So happy! It just seems like yesterday that I got tired of not pursuing who I really am.  2016 was a good year, but 2017 will be even better as I finally get comfort in knowing that what I feel inside will begin to match what's on the outside. Can't wait till March!!!

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I'm sorry things didn't work out as originally planned but i am glad you are on track with a new appointment.

Jani

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